crazycanuck Posted November 28, 2016 Posted November 28, 2016 Well just curious on other people's opinions on this because I haven't figured it out . So I work with a woman who just transferred from another city to where i work about 3 months ago , previously we just had a phone relationship. Over the last few weeks things have picked up a bit , we seem to talk all The time at work , have even went out had dinner (nothing fancy ). Anyways our banter back and forth seems to have changed into a "flirty" tone as she's made jokes about us being married and wanting to take a trip togherher . She originally left where she came from due to needing a change , but also an ex boyfriend who has said pretty much wants nothing to do with her, so I have listened and even offered my 2 cents (nothing to out hand ) just kept it simple . Her body language seems to inconsistent so it's hard to gauge that , she does laugh at my jokes , and even went as far as to say I was a reason she wanted to work were I work .. She seems to like my Facebook posts a fair percentage of the time , and would even reply Aww Muffin when I had a personal post one night.. I'm trying not to get to carried away here , as she seems to be one of those "women" where it's easy to distinguish kindness for something else . I wanna know , but at the same time if she doesnt I don't want to make my job weird .. Thanks for reading
Expectmore Posted November 28, 2016 Posted November 28, 2016 You are about to be locked in the friend zone. In person you need to grab her hand and lead her on a walk and tell her you think she should date you. You think that you are good together and should take a chance. If she says no then blow it off say no worries you just wanted to put it out there then go have a beer and send her home with a bro hug. Now she knows she just lost her value and will want to earn it back again. What do you have to lose? 3
LonelyInsomniac Posted November 28, 2016 Posted November 28, 2016 You're both adults here. No need to play pick-up head games. Next time she makes a flirty joke, try turning it into a date. If she makes a joke about wanting to take a trip together? Joke back, but accept the "invitation". Talking about being married? Joke that you're not that kind of guy, but you might be after a few dates starting this weekend at [some restaurant]. She seems to like keeping it light/joking. Approaching in that tone will help make it an option without putting her on the spot.
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