Stained glass heart Posted November 26, 2016 Posted November 26, 2016 My husband and I got together while we're both unhappy in our first marriages. We started out as friends and then got together after both our divorces. But now even before and after the divorce his ex has tried stuff to break us up, (filing for spousal support when she made more), harassing him where he used to work, showing up at his parents home uninvited and announced. Cheating on him emotionally for five years during the marriage(talking to other men on the Internet and sending nudes of herself), bashing both our names all over the Internet and yet she still can't let him go. I went to high school with her. She got so desperate that she started liking everything on Facebook that we like and started going to the gym to try and make herself skinny but eventually quit.(She's 336lbs) She's gone as far as to not taking any of the stuff she posted pertaining to his family about their engagement or their wedding off even after we've asked her!! (She blamed everything on us when she's the one who treated my husband like a slave and psychically abused him during the marriage!) Also during the marriage, her and my husband purchased guns. Well during the divorce, she made a big stink about how she wanted her gun back. I was afraid for my own life and the lives of my husband and his family. Needless to say, she did not get what she wanted. (The only smart thing she did was put divorce as her marital status. She still continues to troll us and my ex husband all the while thinking that we're completely unaware she's doing any of it. Also, makes it extremely difficult when my husband is her FIRST LOVE. She abused my husband and had her own mother tell her to hit him during the course of their marriage plus she has an extreme temper and road rage. She's got me into trouble with the law and tried to get me thrown in jail. Since then we've moved out of state, but now after a year of blocking us on social media, she suddenly unblocked us. I understand why she's a narcissist. She was mistreated by her mother growing up and bullied in high school for being overweight. We've done the NC for over a year and it's worked but then out of the blue one day, I noticed that she unblocked us. She still has everything the same on her profile, pictures of my husband and all, what I don't get is why? We don't communicate with her in anyway but for her is it something she's incapable of doing?
ElizabethIII Posted November 27, 2016 Posted November 27, 2016 (edited) Who knows. But why havent you blocked her everywhere? You dont need to see it or check up on what she is doing now. You sound just as obsessed with her. What does her weight have to do with anything? Obesity is normal in the USA. Edited November 27, 2016 by ElizabethIII 2
Author Stained glass heart Posted November 27, 2016 Author Posted November 27, 2016 We have blocked her everywhere else and her weight had nothing to do with anything, I just wanted to know why after a year, did she unblock us. We don't care about what she does, it was just odd seeing her on FB under the list of people you may know section.
MidnightBlue1980 Posted November 28, 2016 Posted November 28, 2016 We have blocked her everywhere else and her weight had nothing to do with anything, I just wanted to know why after a year, did she unblock us. We don't care about what she does, it was just odd seeing her on FB under the list of people you may know section. I have unblocked people as a sign to myself that I am done with the drama and over it all. Unless of course someone is harassing you, that is differeny. But if someone is upsetting me, it's important to me that eventually I overcome it and they do not have power over me anymore.
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