Can I get her back or should I not bother?

[Bulls12nba]

So a month ago this Sunday I broke up with my girlfriend of 2 1/2 years, it was after a bad weekend where we both were fighting a lot and generally don't fight howver the previous few months things weren't the best but still not bad.

 

I ended things with her and she didn't protest but I changed my mind and tried to fix things and work it out a few days after the break up but she wasn't having it I sent flowers love letters and she said flowers were beautiful but she feels were doing the right thing and I said fine I love you I'll givr you space

 

Few days after that I called her and she ignored me so I initiated no contact and decided it was time to focus on things j want that she discouraged me from having so I joined a bowling league on what was our "date" night and started going out more and after a week and a half I got a dog which I've always wanted but she discouraged me from rescuing one, I'm having a blast with my dog and working on myself. And I've gone on two dates with two diff girls and had a blast but no chemistry with them

 

After two weeks of total NC I sent her a quick email sayjng I wish we could talk I got a dog I wish she could have met her.

 

And again she ignored my email.

 

I love her and want to keep trying but not at the expense of my happiness. If she even talks to me again that is

 

Any advice is appreciated

 

thanks

[ExpatInItaly]

There really isn't anything you can do if she is unresponsive.

 

Her lack of a reply indicates she does not want to communicate; thus, reconciliation isn't in the cards.

 

You would be better to start accepting that it's over, and begin healing. Cliche, but take this as a lesson that you should never break up with someone unless you truly don't want to be in the relationship anymore.

[Sunkissedpatio]

No point in keep trying because she is not responding. You sent her flowers and letter and her response was "this is good but we are doing the right thing" and then she followed with no response to other attempts.

 

Only recourse you have is to consider this over and move on. To keep pushing for her to give you another go is selfish and not respecting her wishes. You wanted to break up and she respected that, you must do the same now.

 

It's super hard but all it takes is a mind shift and you will start to heal and move on.

[Slimtripper]

Everything you do at this point is going to make it less likely to get back with her

Everything you do to chase her is going to halt you progressing with your life and moving on.

 

Nothing you do at this point to chase her will make any difference, just make it worse.

 

It'll be good. Just remember that its going to hurt, it gets better and you will feel better soon. And when you do, the less of a fool you've out of yourself the better

[Bulls12nba]

Thanks for the advice everyone

 

I don't think I was even happy with her just was so comfortable, I honestly don't even miss her just missing having someone to do things with