Did I make right choice?

[Itta]

There was one guy who liked me, so he asked me out because he wanted to talk to me and to get to know me better, I agreed, we spent 1 hour talking to each other but my gut instinct told me to avoid him even beside that he was really nice to me but I kept my distance, felt really insecure somehow and didn't feel any attraction. So he told me he enjoyed talking to me and asked me on date, I gave him a chance because I thought that attraction will grow on him and things will change. I didn't feel excited about our date at all, even beside I tried to make myself excited but I failed..So we met, he was very nice again, and honest with me, also confident and very smart, he liked deep conversations about life and other things,so he seemed like a dream guy who treated me really well, was very polite and gentleman too but I didn't feel any spark, I didn't feel emotional connection, I still kept my distance, I was afraid to get too close to him, so on that date we spent 4 hours together...I just realized that it won't get any better, so I asked him if he would like to be friends, he agreed, he told me he would still like to talk to me.But after that he was really sad and I understand why, so we still kept talking to each other but it got only worse because the more we were talking the more we realized how different we are, our opinions, our personalities, our future plans were very different, we had only a little common.So it got harder and harder to keep our conversations going, then I started misunderstanding him so it got even more awkward and he stopped talking to me.I really wonder why did he gave a negative vibe even beside he was nice to me?

[Nowty V]

I really wonder why did he gave a negative vibe even beside he was nice to me?

 

Who cares?

 

The main thing is you trusted your gut reaction.

 

You were true to yourself and you were honest with him.

 

You behaved honourably.

 

leave it where it is and move on with your life.