Nalry21 Posted November 25, 2016 Posted November 25, 2016 I'm dating this girl I really like but I'm not sure she's as much into me as I am with her. She got a text message at 1am from some guy that she supposedly went on a date before she met me(he had messaged earlier in the day). Why even respond to the guy if you're dating me? Well today she tells me some friend of hers invited her to a ski trip, the two of them. I went off but she thinks I was wrong. What do you guys think?
Been Posted November 25, 2016 Posted November 25, 2016 I think your gut feeling is right. I think if she was serious about the two of you she wouldn't be getting texts at 1AM from other men
Sunkissedpatio Posted November 25, 2016 Posted November 25, 2016 The friend invited her and the guy skiing? Did she respond to tell him to get lost or what? You should be concerned, getting a random text from someone you dated is not her fault but responding and keeping that channel of communication open is.
Author Nalry21 Posted November 25, 2016 Author Posted November 25, 2016 That's what I told her, why even respond if she was serious about me. The "friend" is someone else. We are un the military and this guy is in a different base and invites her and her answer was hell yea. Then tells me a day later saying that she meant that she was going to ask me if that was ok.
ExpatInItaly Posted November 25, 2016 Posted November 25, 2016 Your instinct is correct. She isn't into you the way you are into her. There is no way she'd be going off on a ski trip with a guy she used to date if she was serious about you.
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