Logo Posted November 25, 2016 Posted November 25, 2016 (edited) I remember during our honeymoon phase how I felt like we were going to stay together for years, for a long time. We held hands tight and felt good. We had a bond. Nothing could break it. Edited November 25, 2016 by Logo
l8estnews Posted November 25, 2016 Posted November 25, 2016 Logo, many people have experienced what you have experienced but are in the same boat as you are. That's the bad side of letting yourself be "immersed" with the euphoria that love brings. We tend to be not grounded in reality anymore. Successful relationship bound by love is very rare nowadays. People equate love with the infatuation they feel for their significant other. Unfortunately, infatuation is only linked with the feeling of "brand new, good looks, different, exciting" etc. but once they get used to the feeling, they get used to you, and found someone new who returned the feeling as well, they suddenly fall "out of love" on you. Some people (the bad ones) will even string you along to ensure that they won't be hurt in the "transition process," that if this new adventure will not work out, they still have you as a cushion. Looking at it now, I realized these people (The cheaters, the one who cannot honor their commitments, easily swayed by new stuff) are very weak. Attractive they may be but very weak, easily tempted, only game on the good stuff. So, remember this whenever you are thinking of your GF. She is not worth your love, she is not the "person" you are imagining her to be. Focus on yourself, love yourself, be OKAY being alone, so that even if this thing happen to you again someday, you can still stand up and move on in life. 4
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