mortensorchid Posted November 25, 2016 Posted November 25, 2016 I had a Facebook chat with the guy I have been talking to online for the last few weeks. For more information, see this thread: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/603468-we-talked-skype All doubts were erased as to what he's looking for, I now agree with what others have said. He made a comment about me in a Halloween costume and asked why I like Halloween / cosplay so much. I said it was because I like the transformation property of it, being someone else. He said he liked me as Kylo Ren this past Halloween. He then asked me to take a photo of myself and send it to him in the Kylo Ren mask. And I did. It wasn't sexy in any way, it was more silly because it was me in flannel pjs in a Kylo Ren mask. Then he asked in his next IM "Probably asking for you to hike up your robe so I can see your butt while you look over your shoulder with the mask on is too much". I said "I think so." I did not send one, I promise. It's obvious to me. I guess guys are like that to want to see as much as possible, to be sure. But I know what he's looking for now so this taints my view of him.
gorf Posted November 25, 2016 Posted November 25, 2016 Forget about the picture thing. You knew what he was about prior to this. Now instead of repeating this over and over with guys, stay away from this type. You now know it when you see it
TheTraveler Posted November 25, 2016 Posted November 25, 2016 I did not send one, I promise. It's obvious to me. I guess guys are like that to want to see as much as possible, to be sure. But I know what he's looking for now so this taints my view of him. A man wants sex. You don't say?
Sunkissedpatio Posted November 25, 2016 Posted November 25, 2016 Yup guys are like that, but there are the types that will ask for that and the types that won't. And it boils down to respect. Some guys don't respect women and some do. Lose this one, he's not worth the hassle.
TheTraveler Posted November 25, 2016 Posted November 25, 2016 Yup guys are like that, but there are the types that will ask for that and the types that won't. And it boils down to respect. Some guys don't respect women and some do. Lose this one, he's not worth the hassle. So play the game. It's not that hard from a guy's perspective
Marc878 Posted November 25, 2016 Posted November 25, 2016 If he was truly interested in you he'd never have asked for that. Dump that and move on. 1
Sunkissedpatio Posted November 25, 2016 Posted November 25, 2016 So play the game. It's not that hard from a guy's perspective Plenty of cool guys to play the game with, why waste your time playing with a loser?
Author mortensorchid Posted December 3, 2016 Author Posted December 3, 2016 Plenty of cool guys to play the game with, why waste your time playing with a loser? He's a bit of a flake, I have determined. A loser? Not enough information to know if he is or is not, but we did have a chat the other day and I asked if he was making any progress in his promised move back from the west coast to my hometown as he indicated. He said no. So I'm not holding my breath on this happening anytime soon.
Space Ritual Posted December 3, 2016 Posted December 3, 2016 Any guy that is sending arse requests over FB is indeed everything you are not looking for in a guy, I assure you. Yuck Just Yuck...I am old enough to fart dust but even I have better game than that. lol 1
Mkn1010 Posted December 4, 2016 Posted December 4, 2016 ^^^^^^ Best thing I've read all week Space Ritual
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