stanx30 Posted November 23, 2016 Posted November 23, 2016 About a month ago I met this woman at an intramural volleyball match that we both played in. the last couple of weeks, we talk after the games and found we have some things in common etc... A couple of days ago I offered to practice w/ her etc, and because of the upcoming holidays it might be tough to meet up at the same time. So I asked for her number to better coordinate schedules. She thought that was a good idea. When we first met last month she told me her name, but when I was putting her number in my phone, I was nervous and said the wrong name, (I was off by a couple of letters) her name is Melanie and I said Margie (sounds sort of similar) and to be honest I was really nervous. Later that night after getting her number, I texted her (introduced myself with name etc..) Its been almost 3 days and haven't heard back from her. I realize its the holidays and she has children so maybe her life is hectic at the moment and she might not have seen my text message. Am I overthinking it? Or did I blow my chance w/ the name gaffe ? thanks
SunnySide0418 Posted November 23, 2016 Posted November 23, 2016 I think it would be ridiculous if she was bothered by that. After all you had just met her. I say wait until middle of next week and text one more time. If still no response move on.
Author stanx30 Posted November 23, 2016 Author Posted November 23, 2016 well she told me her name when we first met a month ago.
TheTraveler Posted November 23, 2016 Posted November 23, 2016 About a month ago I met this woman at an intramural volleyball match that we both played in. the last couple of weeks, we talk after the games and found we have some things in common etc... A couple of days ago I offered to practice w/ her etc, and because of the upcoming holidays it might be tough to meet up at the same time. So I asked for her number to better coordinate schedules. She thought that was a good idea. When we first met last month she told me her name, but when I was putting her number in my phone, I was nervous and said the wrong name, (I was off by a couple of letters) her name is Melanie and I said Margie (sounds sort of similar) and to be honest I was really nervous. Later that night after getting her number, I texted her (introduced myself with name etc..) Its been almost 3 days and haven't heard back from her. I realize its the holidays and she has children so maybe her life is hectic at the moment and she might not have seen my text message. Am I overthinking it? Or did I blow my chance w/ the name gaffe ? thanks What did you actually text her? Be specific
Author stanx30 Posted November 23, 2016 Author Posted November 23, 2016 "Hey this is John from volleyball"
MarkIVSteel Posted November 23, 2016 Posted November 23, 2016 There's no person that doesn't check their phone every couple of hours. She saw it and ignored it. Move on.
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