me myself & I Posted July 14, 2005 Posted July 14, 2005 I have been reading most of what has been written on this site for a few weeks now and have picked up on alot of good advice, however i would like some specific advice for my situation. my ex and I had been together for well over a year (15months) until we had a small fight and i said something i shouldnt have which led to her breaking up with me and wanting a break. (this was 3months ago) at first i fell into the trap of trying to get her to come back, but then i was more interested in finding out why she wanted the break. She said she wanted to live her life with "no worries" for a while. ( not wanting a relationship with anyone) we had stayed in contact every few weeks for the 1st 2months of the breakup, but since she hasnt reply'd to my last email (a month ago) i have decided to use no contact. Im prett sure the was no other guy involved at the time, but who knows now. I just dont understand a few things, firstly why she wanted the break. i dont blame her for breaking it off after what i said, but it doesnt seem like her to want a break and now not even talk to me. im also unsure whether she has moved on, or is still just having time out. I plan to continue no contact and try to move on with my life although i do still love her. Im also unsure on what to do if she did decide to come back. a part of me would want her back but also a part of me thinks if she really loved me like she always said she did, she would have come back by now. Its also my B'day in 3weeks and im wondering what to do if she contacts me.
Samantha2005 Posted July 16, 2005 Posted July 16, 2005 She's not communicating but you're still wondering if she's considering ever getting back together ? I think maybe a short e-mail, just ask her point blank, " Do you think there will be a possibility in the future or should I just move on?" She'll either answer you or she won't, and in the event that she does not, take it as a "no" answer". As for why she wanted the break, well it just happens. People change and rearrange their lives all the time. That's why there are so many people here tonight reading posts by people who are in transition or affected by others who are going through transition Good luck !!
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