Heatemyheart89 Posted November 23, 2016 Posted November 23, 2016 Hi My ex dumped me 15 months ago and I have struggled. I constantly broke n/c. Now I am 3 months n/c, I am still having daily thoughts of my ex. I have a new job, I'm in therapy , I am learning to drive etc ,things are much better for me.But still I think of him . I know we are incompatible. But for some reason after three months n/c the thoughts have really flared up again ( to emotionally charged thoughts like 'why didn't he want me , bet he's having a great life etc). Anyone find this ?
bummer Posted November 25, 2016 Posted November 25, 2016 All the time. How did he make you feel? Have you never felt a love with someone else? Are you exercising? Friends and family there to support you? Just take your time and know by sticking to NC you are fast-tracking your healing. Be proud of taking steps to better yourself and be patient! 1
Kelley Posted November 27, 2016 Posted November 27, 2016 Keep going, the thoughts will eventually subside its very normal. Keep doing things, build your life and one day you will realise you haven't thought about your ex in a while. Don't break NC look after you now. 2
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