NopeNah Posted November 23, 2016 Posted November 23, 2016 Anyone ELSE ever breakup with someone for some legit issues/deal breakers? Then after a period of NC/VLC, get a call/text about some 'serious life issue'(death in the family,sickness,someone is breaking in my home,ect)? This has happened every single time I've ended it with someone around the 90 day mark, if they haven't found someone else.
Bromeo Posted November 23, 2016 Posted November 23, 2016 All of mine, including the ex wife, rebounded so hard Rodman couldn't grab the rock. I guess I have that effect. Lol One ex, a prominent neo natal doctor reached back out after we chilled. She just didn't have the time or the patience. Hell, I'd love a text like that. Lol
jamili Posted November 23, 2016 Posted November 23, 2016 Anyone ELSE ever breakup with someone for some legit issues/deal breakers? Then after a period of NC/VLC, get a call/text about some 'serious life issue'(death in the family,sickness,someone is breaking in my home,ect)? This has happened every single time I've ended it with someone around the 90 day mark, if they haven't found someone else. Perfect example of why you should stick to NC... and what effect breaking NC has on the Dumper (see OP's ). Keep your self-respect. As you can see here, the Dumper only loses even more respect for you when you contact them.
Author NopeNah Posted November 23, 2016 Author Posted November 23, 2016 Perfect example of why you should stick to NC... and what effect breaking NC has on the Dumper (see OP's ). Keep your self-respect. As you can see here, the Dumper only loses even more respect for you when you contact them. This is so true! After the 3rd call, put my phone on silent. My business partner thinks I should block her for a week but, that just seems like game playing to me. If something really is wrong, I'd help her anyway I can but, I honestly have the gut feeling she's making this up for attention.
Author NopeNah Posted November 23, 2016 Author Posted November 23, 2016 Explain the situation so we can help you Nah... Just curious if any other dumpers on here have had this happen. I've had it happen several times now. I know what's going on.
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