Author fosterrd Posted December 10, 2016 Author Posted December 10, 2016 I found out about living arrangements after a friend who works at the gym told me that gym guy is gay, so I did a background check on gym guy, and he's shared the same address with another man for many years. I do background checks on every guy I have an interest in. Nothing wrong with that. I have to be precautious these days. I find that those that do have issues with people googling them are the ones that have a lot to hide. Anyway, it turns out that gym guy did try to deceive me intentionally. I saw him again and asked him about his friend who I was interested in before I met him. I had seen them talking to each other at the gym at one time. I found out that his friend was interested in me, but gym guy told him at that time that I wasn't single, so basically his friend gave up on me. Gym guy also happens to have a crush on his friend (who is straight). So now I'm assuming that gym guy was just trying to get my attention because he had a crush on his friend. Well, it worked because since I didn't see his friend anymore, and he was giving me attention, I started crushing on him instead only for him to reject me. I only read people well when the hunch is bad. I had a hunch there was something off about gym guy, but I wanted to believe that someone really was that into me and that he was a nice guy.
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