MidnightMarauder Posted November 22, 2016 Posted November 22, 2016 So I've been talking on and off again with my ex. It took me awhile but I'm over her now. I've realized that I no longer want to be in a serious relationship anytime soon. We spoke today and somewhere in the conversation, sex came up. We started talking about the memories we had. Our sex life was great, now I'm thinking that maybe that was the whole reason our relationship lasted as long as it did. But we're both single now. We haven't had sex with anyone since the break up and it's been about 2 and a half months. She's stressed out with some **** that's been going on in her life and I guess she needs a release. So we set something up for this weekend. I've heard stories about this situation being a bad idea. But I know for a fact that my feelings are gone for her. I still think she's gorgeous and she has a nice body but I understand that trying again with the relationship won't work out. I'm unsure whether or nor her feelings are gone for me. Ultimately, I'm gonna end up doing this regardless of what anyone says. I'm just curious as to what you all think? Is this really as bad of an idea as everyone says it is?
Mi7522 Posted November 22, 2016 Posted November 22, 2016 Not a bad idea at all, I'm doing it right now and it is fantastic. The sex is better than ever and we get along better than when we were in a relationship. Go for it and have fun! 4
Bromeo Posted November 23, 2016 Posted November 23, 2016 Two ways to consider: You say you have no feelings, but a good nip and tickle can rouse feelings in the hardcore. Tread lightly. You can also let attraction build, let her come to you, enjoy the coupling, and let feelings flow naturally. My ex and I were explosive in the sack. This kept me chasing when I should have ran for the hills. Read my tale of woe if you don't believe me. It's that powerful. 1
NopeNah Posted November 23, 2016 Posted November 23, 2016 I meant to reply earlier but, got busy... I read your other thread and I doubt you're in the 'headspace' to go back to casually sleeping with her. Ask yourself this: It's a friday night, you're wanting to get laid but, can't because she's on a date and is going to let him 'hit it' instead. How will THAT make you feel?
Bromeo Posted November 23, 2016 Posted November 23, 2016 Prayingfordaylight, Ugh, no. Just, no. Sloppy seconds, sheesh. lol
NopeNah Posted November 23, 2016 Posted November 23, 2016 Prayingfordaylight, Ugh, no. Just, no. Sloppy seconds, sheesh. lol Happens a lot with exes! They're still out there doing their 'thang', while you sit on the floor, waiting for scraps.
Bromeo Posted November 23, 2016 Posted November 23, 2016 Honestly, mine is right now. Read my tale of woe and beware, traveler. Lol However, I got hit with a ton of mental bricks today. WTF?!?! (A callous minimzation of the enlightnement process) So no scraps for this guy, I want the whole cut. Lol 1
Author MidnightMarauder Posted November 23, 2016 Author Posted November 23, 2016 Well we both have "potential partners." She's got a guy she's talking to and I have a girl I've been talking to. Nothing serious on either side, man. But we've agreed on it. No strings attached and I'm fully aware that this can backfire on either of us. But I'm ****ing single! Haha. If she needs some pleasuring she can get it and at the same time, I will too. I'll let you all know what happens. I'm excited but also nervous. It's gonna be a wild ass ride, boys.
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