I still feel guilty for rejecting him?

[Itta]

Hello, three month ago I've rejected one guy who was really nice to me, acted like gentleman but I didn't feel physically attracted and didn't feel any emotional connection with him..So after our first date I've asked him if he would like to be friends with me, he agreed but since then I always saw him depressed. But after rejection he was nice to me too, still wanted to talk to me but the more we were talking, more I realized that we actually have only little common, we are almost polar opposites, so it got harder and harder to keep our conversations going because our opinions were almost always different. So it got worse and worse, and I started misunderstanding him. So now he completely stopped talking to me and stopped being nice to me. Now I feel like it's all my fault:( I'm always thinking what if I wouldn't have rejected him?

How to stop feeling bad about it?

[Sweetfish]

Hello, three month ago I've rejected one guy who was really nice to me, acted like gentleman but I didn't feel physically attracted and didn't feel any emotional connection with him..So after our first date I've asked him if he would like to be friends with me, he agreed but since then I always saw him depressed. But after rejection he was nice to me too, still wanted to talk to me but the more we were talking, more I realized that we actually have only little common, we are almost polar opposites, so it got harder and harder to keep our conversations going because our opinions were almost always different. So it got worse and worse, and I started misunderstanding him. So now he completely stopped talking to me and stopped being nice to me. Now I feel like it's all my fault:( I'm always thinking what if I wouldn't have rejected him?

How to stop feeling bad about it?

 

 

Not your fault... the attraction is not there.. why force it.

 

His pulling away is actually making you have feelings for him. It probably won't be enough for you to have a deep bond.