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First real fight. I wanted to end it.

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Jordvn Established Member

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Well, well, well. She just liked my selfie (she never likes any of my photos) and her sister added me on instagram, so I got that going for me, which is nice.

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Well, well, well. She just liked my selfie (she never likes any of my photos) and her sister added me on instagram, so I got that going for me, which is nice.

 

Aw. Let's assume they're sitting around cutting hearts out of red construction paper for Valentine's Day too!

 

Dude, they're running surveillance. And ****ing with you.

 

If she never liked a pic of you, why would she start now?

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Yep, they're messing with you. Part of the suffering you will endure for your actions as they see it.

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I get it, I F'd up.

 

But what I want to know is, why won't she reply when I ask if she wants to be with me still?

 

 

Honestly cause she doesn't have to you ended the relationship on a whim that should be case closed you dont get always get nice clean closure in such matters but im thinking you guys are rather young? so maybe you have never had this kinda thing happen before..

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but I told I wanted to break up. !

 

Yeah, I didn't pull the trigger.

 

I told her, "if we're gonna be in a relationship, you're going have to establish good communication." That's when she responds after ignoring me all day.

 

 

So whats the truth?...:confused:

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Aw. Let's assume they're sitting around cutting hearts out of red construction paper for Valentine's Day too!

 

Dude, they're running surveillance. And ****ing with you.

 

If she never liked a pic of you, why would she start now?

 

Surveillance? why? my profile is public.

 

When I broke up with my exes, they blocked me, & so I did all her friends and family. Wouldn't it be the same with my new GF if she wanted it over?

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Surveillance? why? my profile is public.

 

When I broke up with my exes, they blocked me, & so I did all her friends and family. Wouldn't it be the same with my new GF if she wanted it over?

 

Nope.

 

Meanwhile, if your doorbell rings, and there's a flaming paper sack on your porch, don't stomp on it! :lmao:

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I get it, I F'd up.

 

But what I want to know is, why won't she reply when I ask if she wants to be with me still?

 

You gave her a big dose of "He's just not into you". She obviously has self esteem.

 

You broke up with her. She owes you NOTHING.

 

She does not need to accept your apology. She does not need to speak with you. The fact that you seem to feel that she should respond to you speaks volumes about your sense of entitlement.

 

You lost the right to civil conversation when you ended the relationship.

 

Totally agree.

 

dude, I told her that I didn't want to break up, and it was on her, but she doesn't respond about it.

 

You may have changed your mind but she hasn't. She's showing you she's done.

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When I broke up with my exes, they blocked me, & so I did all her friends and family. Wouldn't it be the same with my new GF if she wanted it over?

 

Hate to disillusion you, but not all women do exactly the same thing on exactly the same timetable.

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Hate to disillusion you, but not all women do exactly the same thing on exactly the same timetable.

 

espicualy if she feels she was quite wronged witch in this case she was I would tend to agree she is screwing with the OPs mind at this point and sitting back and laughing about it..Op best thing you can do at this point is honestly move on stop tryin to contact her and just move on live and learn now you know what not to say in a fight for future reference unless you 200% mean it..

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She doesn't like your attitude, your accusations, and now she doesn't like your friend, and she doesn't owe you any civility after that. If she comes back, it will be on her terms.

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You made a mistake. You should have gotten your facts together before accusing her.

 

Nothing wrong with trying to get your girl back after you make a mistake. Nothing wrong with forgiveness if the person is willing to try and do better moving forward.

 

The lesson here is not to accuse without facts and don't breakup unless you really mean it. I have done it but usually with good reason.

 

Give her some time. Text Happy thxgvng and let it go. After a week or so see if she is willing to hear you out. Don't grovel. Don't beg. And don't lose your dignity because you still care about her and want to make it work.

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I didn't listen to you guys. I went on her tumblr and asked her anonymously if I could take her out on a date. She reply "idk who you are." So I replied "it's your boyfriend." She said "WTF, LMAO." I texted her if we're still on, and she said "YESSSSSS!!!!"

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I didn't listen to you guys. I went on her tumblr and asked her anonymously if I could take her out on a date. She reply "idk who you are." So I replied "it's your boyfriend." She said "WTF, LMAO." I texted her if we're still on, and she said "YESSSSSS!!!!"

 

notice her 1st response was IDK who you are wonder if the response would have been different if she did know who it was and he was single...I think it prob would have been you got lucky I guess if your into fighting a lot cause chances are its not going to be smooth sailing after all this.. sorry that was stalkerish im kinda surprised she didn't tell you off.. Tech you were not even her BF I feel kinda sorry for a women who would do that to herself but like I said you guys sound very young..

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I didn't listen to you guys. I went on her tumblr and asked her anonymously if I could take her out on a date. She reply "idk who you are." So I replied "it's your boyfriend." She said "WTF, LMAO." I texted her if we're still on, and she said "YESSSSSS!!!!"

 

Then take the mature step forward and apologize. Sincerely.

 

If she is in fact giving you another chance, she needs to know that you have some respect for her.

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You're lucky she's giving you a second chance. I wouldn't. Breaking up with her for her behaviour when you two weren't even together, particularly when you're only hearing it second hand from a 'buddy' is immature, insecure, and manipulative.

 

And no, girls and their families don't all fully block you whenever you break up. Usually that only happens when the breakup, and the ex boyfriend, are terrible. I still have all of my exes on facebook except for one who cheated on me and was dishonest and manipulative.

 

try not to be so insecure and judgemental this time around.

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Then take the mature step forward and apologize. Sincerely.

 

If she is in fact giving you another chance, she needs to know that you have some respect for her.

 

I'm going to spend the day with her tomorrow. I already apologized and she said she was over it. I knew if I used my humor, she would start warming up. I plan on showing up on her doorstep with a dozen roses.

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