robtmufc Posted November 22, 2016 Posted November 22, 2016 I've posted in these forums before about when my relationship ended and I'm not really sure what I want from all this but anyway long story short we broke up in 2013 she didn't really want to break up but did so she kept playing with my feelings, I didn't take it very well and she knew this so prolonged it for over 7 months till she got in a relationship with someone who I found out a year later she'd been talking to while we were together. Fast forward 2 years later start of 2015 I was out one night and I was talking to a girl who was his ex (it's a strange situation I know) and she told me that he'd been hitting her and put her in hospital. I'd been drinking so I lost it and messaged her and told her that even though we're over I still care about her and that she shouldn't allow this to happen and if she needed help I'm there for her. Didn't hear anything from her for a week then she rings me one night saying he's hitting her again and I offered to go and see her but she hung up on me. Then fast forward to October this year again I'd been out drinking and she rang me on Facebook and I just automatically answered it rather than ignoring it. She asks me how I am and I said fine how is she? She says fine then just suddenly says Ive got to go and hangs up on me. I messaged her abit on Facebook after that then she blocked me again. On Wednesday last week out of the blue she's unblocked me and sent me a message saying she's sorry for how the relationship ended and she hopes me and my family are ok. Being the idiot I am I replied and said "thanks hope your family is ok too, I'd like to see you again if you would like to for a coffee and catch up" she didn't reply but she has seen the message on Facebook. Since we've broke up I've been on a few dates and seen a few girls but I've never felt anything for them. I just feel like theres something holding me back and its been so long that I am over my ex but I don't know if I truly am?
ElizabethIII Posted November 22, 2016 Posted November 22, 2016 (edited) That is nasty of her. To message you after all this time and then ignore your reply. She wasnt blocked as you got a message from her, so block her now. She is just using you to dump her problems on. I am still hung up on an ex from 2013 too. Not felt the same about anyone since. Not sure what I do about it either as he married the one he cheated with. he is blocked everywhere though. Edited November 22, 2016 by ElizabethIII
dumbass2 Posted November 22, 2016 Posted November 22, 2016 Would you get back into a relationship with her if she came right out now and asked you? If she told you how big a mistake it was to leave you and how she was never able to get over you?
Author robtmufc Posted November 22, 2016 Author Posted November 22, 2016 Would you get back into a relationship with her if she came right out now and asked you? If she told you how big a mistake it was to leave you and how she was never able to get over you? I would probably say yes thats the silly thing, she hurt me a lot when we broke up and sent me to the edge. But whenever I look at girls I always try to find her in them and I know I shouldn't.
Frozensushi Posted November 22, 2016 Posted November 22, 2016 I would probably say yes thats the silly thing, she hurt me a lot when we broke up and sent me to the edge. But whenever I look at girls I always try to find her in them and I know I shouldn't. I think you need to go NC with this woman indefinitely. She's still has so much power over you, even after three years. She using you as an emotional buffer to help boost her ego while dealing with her toxic relationship. There are literally millions of single woman out there, why are you so hung up on her? She's bad news. Don't let her mess with you like this. 2
BC1980 Posted November 22, 2016 Posted November 22, 2016 She's just playing with you, and you're definitely not over her. If you want to move on, block her for good, and don't revisit this. 1
MrPlop Posted November 22, 2016 Posted November 22, 2016 You all seem to be also forgetting about the guy who's hitting a women much less afraid to cause harm to the OP. And you offered to go to this guy's house to help?? For what? so she can return to him in less than 24 hs?
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