Afraid of friendzone. Cant see her before 5-6 months

[BillBull]

I like a girl and have meet her on and off for 4 months when she lived in my City. We connected sooo well. But now the problem is she lives about 5-6h from me. And we cant see each other before spring.

 

How do I keep her interested? How often would be good to call and text her?

 

Im lost in talking/flirting over phone with girls for longer periods without seeing them. Some advice her?

 

Right now I have talked with her for a couple of times maybe 1-2 calls and 1-2 texts per week. In the beginning she told me how great I was and how much she missed me. The talking was more in a serious way. Now Its more unserious, she laughing all the time and telling me Im so funny. Im feeling Im going to end in friendzone. Can I turn it around?

 

 

My brain say Its best to forget about the hole thing and move on. But I cant cotrol my feelings right now.

[TheTraveler]

If you cannot see her for 5-6 months, why put your life on hold? Continue to date and meet others in your area. You can also continue talking to her, but do not drop everyone and focus only on her.

[smackie9]

It's best to forget the whole thing. The more you interact with her, the more she's going to friend zone you if you are not already there. Pull back, and just respond if she texts. maybe send a " heya" once in awhile. The less available the more desirable. Make it look like you are busy, post pictures of you being at places, partying etc. If she knows she has you eating out of her hand, she will lose respect for you.

[ElizabethIII]

Dont bother.

 

Get out and date others and meet someone else.

 

If you are still single when she comes back take it from there.

 

The hell with what she is doing. Worry about yourself.

[MarkIVSteel]

Dude, there are a billion other women out there.

[BillBull]

Thank you for the answers! Easier said than done but I guess I have to move on.