lily999 Posted November 21, 2016 Posted November 21, 2016 This guy always lied to me, and after I found out he had a girlfriend I broke things off and never saw him again since July. He didn't even want to tell me his real phone number, but he said his apartment is free for me to go to. Last Saturday he asked me to stay overnight at his place but I declined. When I asked him why he kept contacting me , he said" because we know each other and we like what we do". What does it mean? Does it mean he only comes to me when he has no other options?
Space Ritual Posted November 21, 2016 Posted November 21, 2016 Yep, you are nothing but a booty call to him when his girlfriend is mad at him or he is horny and she isn't around. He considers you an easy piece of ass. You would probably do well to stop all contact with him. For all you know he has kids or juggling multiple women. It would not be beyond the realm of possibility to be doing that as long as he can find women gullible enough to keep coming back. Just remember that although women want a lot of things out of one guy, guys want one thing out of a lot of women.
Author lily999 Posted November 21, 2016 Author Posted November 21, 2016 Yep, you are nothing but a booty call to him when his girlfriend is mad at him or he is horny and she isn't around. He considers you an easy piece of ass. You would probably do well to stop all contact with him. For all you know he has kids or juggling multiple women. It would not be beyond the realm of possibility to be doing that as long as he can find women gullible enough to keep coming back. Just remember that although women want a lot of things out of one guy, guys want one thing out of a lot of women. His girlfriend broke up with him when she found out he was cheating on her with me. I guess now he is single but "juggling multiple women"
frus69 Posted November 21, 2016 Posted November 21, 2016 What does it mean? Does it mean he only comes to me when he has no other options? Why do you care???
dumbass2 Posted November 21, 2016 Posted November 21, 2016 He's just looking for sex and nothing more.
gorf Posted November 21, 2016 Posted November 21, 2016 Lilly.... if you want this guy out of your life, you are a smart girl. Block him. You know how to, if you really wanted to. If this were some guy who wanted to kill you for example, you would block the hell out of him. And you would know all the ways to do it and they would get done very quickly. To him, you are a booty call. A FWB. And the fact that he is able to keep getting in contact with you at all is all the reason he needs to keep thinking this. Dont let it snowball or you will be surprised how ugly these kinda situations can get. If you are done with him, then you are done.
gorf Posted November 21, 2016 Posted November 21, 2016 His girlfriend broke up with him when she found out he was cheating on her with me. I guess now he is single but "juggling multiple women" Cheated on her with you. Yeah juggling haha. You know he's capable of it. Are you really surprised he keeps contacting you? Really?
Author lily999 Posted November 21, 2016 Author Posted November 21, 2016 Lilly.... if you want this guy out of your life, you are a smart girl. Block him. You know how to, if you really wanted to. If this were some guy who wanted to kill you for example, you would block the hell out of him. And you would know all the ways to do it and they would get done very quickly. To him, you are a booty call. A FWB. And the fact that he is able to keep getting in contact with you at all is all the reason he needs to keep thinking this. Dont let it snowball or you will be surprised how ugly these kinda situations can get. If you are done with him, then you are done. Not able to block him. Like I said he never told me his real phone number, but he uses a text/call application to contact me so he has lots of numbers from that application. I told him to f off many times but he still kept coming back. Sometimes he said things to confuse me, making me think that there would be something more. But a guy who would never told me his real phone number is a liar
Grey40 Posted November 21, 2016 Posted November 21, 2016 Not able to block him. Like I said he never told me his real phone number, but he uses a text/call application to contact me so he has lots of numbers from that application. I told him to f off many times but he still kept coming back. Sometimes he said things to confuse me, making me think that there would be something more. But a guy who would never told me his real phone number is a liar Yup. You're smarter than this. Don't think there's something more, there is 100% no chance for anything but a sexual fling. If you can't block him, delete the app or just ignore any or all messages from him. In fact, if you know the name of the program he uses just call your phone provider (att, Verizon etc.) tell them to block all incoming calls from that application...I bet you they can do it.
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