Author Jimmyjackson Posted November 21, 2016 Author Posted November 21, 2016 Translation: I wants to keep you on the backburner while I explore my options with Mr McHottie or my absentee ex who still tingles my vagina. I think it's the ex thing. She broke up with him in July and started seeing me in the September. He lives in another country though so there's little chance anything will happen but she's obviously not over it. He's the only guy she's been with since that thing happened in the past and she probably isn't ready to open up physically to someone else. She also mentioned that she is quitting her job due to her anxiety also
joseb Posted November 21, 2016 Posted November 21, 2016 Translation: I wants to keep you on the backburner while I explore my options with Mr McHottie or my absentee ex who still tingles my vagina. My thoughts exactly. OP, sorry, looks like she isn't really into you. Accept it and move on, as if you stay clinging on you will just act as an ego boost to her and destroy your own self esteem. 1
MarkIVSteel Posted November 21, 2016 Posted November 21, 2016 I think it's the ex thing. She broke up with him in July and started seeing me in the September. He lives in another country though so there's little chance anything will happen but she's obviously not over it. He's the only guy she's been with since that thing happened in the past and she probably isn't ready to open up physically to someone else. She also mentioned that she is quitting her job due to her anxiety also It could also be another guy. Not just her ex. Point is. Stick in a fork in it and call it a day. Tell her you understand and that you wish her the best. You're now free to date other women.
TheTraveler Posted November 21, 2016 Posted November 21, 2016 We hadn't had sex, the reason being something happened to her when she was younger. I won't go into detail but you can probably guess what it is. She said this also had played a part because she doesn't want to keep me waiting while she's deals with it still. ... 3 months no sex? Nope
Author Jimmyjackson Posted November 21, 2016 Author Posted November 21, 2016 3 months no sex? Nope She's was sexually assaulted when she was younger so I can't blame her for being hesitant to have sex again...
Author Jimmyjackson Posted November 21, 2016 Author Posted November 21, 2016 It could also be another guy. Not just her ex. Point is. Stick in a fork in it and call it a day. Tell her you understand and that you wish her the best. You're now free to date other women. I hate to admit it but you're right, as much as I want to see her still it pains me to accept the reality. I won't be dating anyone for a while I don't think I want some time away from women.
TheTraveler Posted November 21, 2016 Posted November 21, 2016 She's was sexually assaulted when she was younger so I can't blame her for being hesitant to have sex again... She found someone else willing to give her the D. Not your problem anymore, she's left the building. 1
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