Isittolatenow Posted November 20, 2016 Posted November 20, 2016 My ex sent me a Birthday present through a friend (a bottle of wine.) I messaged him to say thanks, & so we've spent the last few days messaging occasionally. Nothing too much, 5 or 6 messages Friday, yesterday and today. But today it started to fall into the "if we looked into this another way, it might become dirty". (He commented on my what's app pic, I'm drinking a cocktail through a straw. He made some comment about what's in the drink and it looked like I was enjoying it blah blah!) The subject changed pretty quickly, but now I'm in the position of "waiting" to hear from him again. So I'm calling him on it. I think. Basically I want to say "I can't be friends with you. You've made your position clear, so I'm backing off." I hate that I'm in this position, that he makes me feel so good when I'm hearing from him. He really is a drug. I can't keep hanging on for nothing. Please reassure me I'm doing the best thing! 1
Nowty V Posted November 20, 2016 Posted November 20, 2016 You are doing the best thing You don't need him and the whole up & down emotional roller coaster. You don't need to feel like crap when he doesn't reciprocate. 1
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