impliedlost Posted November 20, 2016 Posted November 20, 2016 One of my first post on this forum was the issues I was having with my fiances family. Things have got worse. Our therapist as, well as her therapist told her that she needs to set boundaries with her family. Get on my side.. Support the relationship. So she decided that she was going to do that. She confronted her mother and said to her. I need you to stop talking about my future husband badly. The mother says nope. and then announces she is going to hire a private investigator. My soon to be wife admitted that she is really devastated that her family isn't going to be there for her at the wedding. We both know the p.i wont find anything. It's insulting and totally crass what they have done. The problem is that, in all of this she didn't stop her mother at all. but when I mentioned her mother is breaking the law, and making our lives really miserable in the process. I might need to get a restraining order against her. She said please don't. Also, to boot. I am not invited to the thanks giving dinner. and my fiance is head strong on going. Would you fight for a relationship where one is basically wed to her family. Regardless of how toxic they are?
Bromeo Posted November 20, 2016 Posted November 20, 2016 Um, why is a private investigator needed? I think you should have serious conversation with your partner and yourself, to see if this is what you want your life to be. You may love her, and that is noble, but drama like this may not be worth it. Corey Wayne would advise to give time, space, and distance.
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