DenteDelDrago Posted November 20, 2016 Posted November 20, 2016 (edited) Hi! I am a freshman in high school (I know that's young but bear with me) and a while ago i found out that this one girl likes me. After i found out, i got her number from a friend and texted her. I didn't like her in that way at the time so i asked her to the homecoming dance just to make her happy. From that point on, things were looking great. The second day we texted, our conversation spanned over 7 hours. Time passed and she would say stuff like, "you make me so happy", and, "when you look at me, I can't stop smiling.", and "I really want to give you a hug tomorrow". I would have taken things a step further since it seemed like she liked me so much, but she just got out of a relationship and said she wasn't ready for another. We would constantly flirt for hours and hours and always walk to class together, until one day while we were texting, she said that she didn't like me in that way anymore and that she was going to try to get back together with her ex. Ever since then, things began to fall apart. We hardly ever text, we don't walk to class anymore, and she has been acting a lot differently, but not in a good way. I now started thinking about what went wrong and I've actually started to want her again because i know i could get her. I seriously doubt that their relationship will go very far but i just want to make sure there is some advice that can help. Thanks!!! Edited November 20, 2016 by DenteDelDrago
fromheart Posted November 20, 2016 Posted November 20, 2016 (edited) The number 1 rule is as far as I'm concerned, if you have a greater interest in a girl than she has in you, walk away from her. If her interest in you then increases, take it from there. Otherwise, keep walking. Don't text and chat for 7 hours, make a date to meet physically and then put the phone down. If a girl is just out of a relationship, she's probably in 'fun,' mode and doesn't want to go straight into a relationship with someone else. And if she's saying to you she wants to get back with her ex, follow rule number 1 and walk away completely. Ignore her, drop all contact and talk to other girls. Edited November 20, 2016 by fromheart
Author DenteDelDrago Posted November 20, 2016 Author Posted November 20, 2016 She was actually more interested in me than I was in her. I still want to be her friend but she's been hanging out with her friends way more than usual. I also think their relationship is a weak one so what should I do if they break up?
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