Forever Searching Posted July 13, 2005 Posted July 13, 2005 I don't know what to do. I've met someone and we have hung out under the impression of just being friends, but we both have a very strong sexual attraction to each other and it's confusing. First of all, he just got out of a long term relationship a few months ago and I don't believe he is looking for something serious and I'm not sure I want to be serious with anyone right now at the moment but i would love nothing more than to have sex with him. I don't know what to do because I don't want to get into anything that I'm not going to be able to handle down the road, but... I really really want to sleep with him. lol.
Author Forever Searching Posted July 13, 2005 Author Posted July 13, 2005 Originally posted by A Fly onThe Wall Talk to him about it .. You never know Well we kind of did talk about it and we agree it's a mutual attraction. It's just I hate moving too fast. Maybe I am trying to ask how the heck can I control my hormones a little longer? lol.
A Fly onThe Wall Posted July 13, 2005 Posted July 13, 2005 Originally posted by Forever Searching It's just I hate moving too fast. Maybe I am trying to ask how the heck can I control my hormones a little longer? You have to do what makes You feel comfortable. It's good that you already have your own radar on and can sense not wanting to go fast. Tell him the same type of things you are writing about here. If he is a good guy he will follow your lead
Author Forever Searching Posted July 13, 2005 Author Posted July 13, 2005 All I know is I want to ravage him. I don't know if the whole sexual peak thing for women is true or not but dang if I don't think I've hit it!! I guess it goes back to the double standards thing. The majority thinks it is wrong for a single woman to want to get her freak on.
Jennifer'sSecret Posted July 13, 2005 Posted July 13, 2005 There's nothing wrong with a single woman wanting to "get her freak on," but you and I both know that for 99.9999999999% of women, sex and heart strings are inextricably linked. Do you really think you are the woman that comprises that minority? As a good guy friend once warned me, you can do it once, MAYBE twice, but after that, your heart is going to be hooked, and you'll wind up hurt if he doesn't ultimately want what you WILL want.
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