burritosntacos Posted November 20, 2016 Posted November 20, 2016 I had a friend group of a few guys and girls which is where my bf and I met. One of the girls was always very flirty with my bf and favored him above the rest (even though she has a bf so its not really an issue of me being insecure that she would do anything with him). When me and my bf started dating she became extra nice to him and pretty nasty to me. Did a bunch of hurtful things and we had a bunch of little fights yet I always found myself apologizing and feeling bad (even though now I realize she should have been apologizing as well but never did). Since shes never been mean to my bf, he is still friends with her where as I have learned to keep my distance. I know that my bf would never cheat on me but it still bothers me to see them hanging out at parties (we are long distance so I'm rarely there). Am I right in feeling annoyed because he is friends with someone who hurt my feelings in the past (and never really resolved them)? If so, how do I bring this up with my bf?
Sweetfish Posted November 20, 2016 Posted November 20, 2016 I had a friend group of a few guys and girls which is where my bf and I met. One of the girls was always very flirty with my bf and favored him above the rest (even though she has a bf so its not really an issue of me being insecure that she would do anything with him). When me and my bf started dating she became extra nice to him and pretty nasty to me. Did a bunch of hurtful things and we had a bunch of little fights yet I always found myself apologizing and feeling bad (even though now I realize she should have been apologizing as well but never did). Since shes never been mean to my bf, he is still friends with her where as I have learned to keep my distance. I know that my bf would never cheat on me but it still bothers me to see them hanging out at parties (we are long distance so I'm rarely there). Am I right in feeling annoyed because he is friends with someone who hurt my feelings in the past (and never really resolved them)? If so, how do I bring this up with my bf? What she do?
Author burritosntacos Posted November 20, 2016 Author Posted November 20, 2016 What she do? Hard to get into detail, but mainly just constantly make me feel bad about stuff, and uncomfortable whenever I was around my bf.
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