titipornstar Posted November 19, 2016 Posted November 19, 2016 Its been over 2 years now pbu I just logged in to thank all that helped me through the darkest days of my life. A year of emotional hell and mental instability. The pain goes, i still think about her but it dosen't hurt anymore, something i thought would never happen. Im now in a newer healthier relationship, she too is with someone new, a bit of a loser tbh. I don't think my soul will ever fall as deeply in love again, so i have been affected, a kind of subconscious mechanism has been programmed in me. After over 2 + years she is contacting me again and wants to meet up, a scenario i would have cut an arm off 18 months ago. Theres no way im going there. Regret is a powerful emotion. I was hoping this would happen 1 day to feel I had won, but i dont feel like ive won, i feel nothing, which to me makes me feel like i have really won for myself. Good luck and big love to all those going through hell, im proof that things become ok again. 5
BAcK Posted November 20, 2016 Posted November 20, 2016 Its been over 2 years now pbu I just logged in to thank all that helped me through the darkest days of my life. A year of emotional hell and mental instability. The pain goes, i still think about her but it dosen't hurt anymore, something i thought would never happen. Im now in a newer healthier relationship, she too is with someone new, a bit of a loser tbh. I don't think my soul will ever fall as deeply in love again, so i have been affected, a kind of subconscious mechanism has been programmed in me. After over 2 + years she is contacting me again and wants to meet up, a scenario i would have cut an arm off 18 months ago. Theres no way im going there. Regret is a powerful emotion. I was hoping this would happen 1 day to feel I had won, but i dont feel like ive won, i feel nothing, which to me makes me feel like i have really won for myself. Good luck and big love to all those going through hell, im proof that things become ok again. This is one of the best threads i've come across so far. They always come back. But it's upon us to decide whether or not we want them in our lives. You have won man. You have won for yourself. 1
Deadmeat Posted November 20, 2016 Posted November 20, 2016 Thanks for coming back and posting a reply. Gives us all dumpees hope. What would you say to yourself during those times of pain a few months pbu?
Marco Valerio Posted November 20, 2016 Posted November 20, 2016 Good for you!!!! Of course you've won!!! You're in a relationship with someone who loves you, and your ex is probably regretting her decision
Author titipornstar Posted November 20, 2016 Author Posted November 20, 2016 Thanks for coming back and posting a reply. Gives us all dumpees hope. What would you say to yourself during those times of pain a few months pbu? Get your head down knuckle down , grind your teeth and get on with it. The only thing i regret is being a crybaby to friends and family. Dont contact them at all. I bump into her sometimes i feel nothing its great, she senses this and dosent like it. fxxk her 1
Bromeo Posted November 20, 2016 Posted November 20, 2016 I love this thread. People feel like they can pop in and out of your life anytime they want. Especially when they were the one doing the dumping. I am 1 month NC post breakup. Knuckles down, head up is right. I fought like hell for mine, and was basically ghosted. After 18 months. Lol I honestly don't know how I'd feel in this circumstance. The vengeful part of me says spark it back up to be the dumper, but honestly, that solves nothing. Don't ruin the good thing you've got going, do what you feel you can, and don't get sucked back in. Bromeo
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