daisyzee Posted October 27, 2016 Posted October 27, 2016 its been 4 months since the break up he has a new gf and we havent talked since like 3 weeks ago he recently put a song on his snapchat "girl im done with you i thought i said im done with you " exactly that line and this is like the second time or so that he puts that and i assume it could be about me or the girls he talked to after i broke up with him but i dont get why if i make it seem like i have no interest in him anymore and also sometimes he goes all out of his way to just say hey to me like last week we were in a school meeting and i tried avoiding him but my friend whom was with me started telling me he was pointing at me and talking about me with his friends and you know when you shrug your shoulders basically shrugging one shoulder to his friend and raising his brows pointing and talking about me kinda like "look look" but not like in a bad way and even though we were a couple tables apart he called my name multiple times and when i turned he smiled like blushed kinda and turned pertending like he didnt call me and after a while he called again a couple times but this time i didnt turn
Toodaloo Posted October 27, 2016 Posted October 27, 2016 Honey the guy is a player. Delete him on snap chat and all that jazz that you cool kids are into these days. If he calls out your name ignore him completely and carry on! Go laugh with your girls and do your thing. He is just playing silly games to get your attention. He may have dumped you but he wants to be the cool guy that all the girls want. Because that is how it works at your age. Leave him to it and concentrate on your studies and your hobbies and your friends. Ignoring him is bruising his ego. Treat him like an annoying fly buzzing around. Because that is all he is. Ignore and when you have to swat him down and tell him to buzz off. Guy is what we old cats call a "tool". Ignore him and don't let it upset you.
Author daisyzee Posted November 12, 2016 Author Posted November 12, 2016 (edited) Ok so well for one im not sure why this is but it has only happened to me twice where a while ago i dreamt my ex had posted so many pictures of him and his new girlfriend i woke up around midnight and something just made me go to his instagram and that exact night basically while i was dreaming he had posted a picture of her , also thursday night i dreamt about this guy i used to talk to like way back this guy and i havent even talked for like a year or so and i dreamt he had messaged me an abbreviation of something but it was like random i didnt understand it it was kinda like "hyb" or something and i was like "huh" and he said "nun" and we carried on anyway so i wake up after that it was around 3am and kid you not i checked my phone and he had messaged me saying "hey" i think its the weirdest thing ever it only happened to me twice like ill dream of something and itll happen that night or the next day i dont understand? Now next one is recently yesterday night i posted snapchats of me and i looked good anyway i dreamt that it was yesterday night like i was in the present it was very vivid i dreamt my ex had seen them and texted me saying like "wow how could you be so " and i remember opening the message and i was a bit confused because i was thinking like why would he tell me this if he has a girlfriend and i woke up after that realizing it was a dream but it felt so vivid and real like it was in the present my dream took place that same day i posted the snapchats im not sure how to explain but it was kinda as if foreshadowing maybe ? anyone help interpret on maybe why i dreamt this Edited November 20, 2016 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
Shanex Posted November 12, 2016 Posted November 12, 2016 Interpreting dreams was Nietzsches Forte. Look him up. There's always an explanation to dreams or nightmares.
Author daisyzee Posted November 19, 2016 Author Posted November 19, 2016 (edited) Im doing fine much better than i used to be im proud of myself ive been extremely strong its still heartbreaking but it does get easier. Hes still has a girlfriend and in a way i find myself feeling happy for him sometimes because hes with the person hes been looking for. Its been almost 5 months now since i broke up with him and its been a complete roller coaster though its been about a month since the last time we actually texted or said something to one another I honestly thought Id never see his name in my notifications again I thought him texting me was completely over since he has a gf and since a month is the longest weve gone without some type of contact. But just yesterday i posted on snapchat talking about who wanted to stay up with me and he texted me talking about how i was gonna fall asleep and how i always fall asleep in a way bringing up the past because back when we use to stay up Id fall asleep , we debated about that for a while because i said hes the one who sleeps alot and so on we continued having a normal conversation he asked how my life was i said good i asked him and he said "cant complain" after some hours of having a convo that night and the next morning he left me on read. This time though i wasnt upset or anything because i kind of was waiting for that to happen i knew it wouldnt last. But hmm i dont know i just wish i could know whats up because why still bother to text me and i know only he can answer that . I know what many will say just block him or dont reply maybe its my fault but with all sincerety I like knowing he hasnt completely stoped caring about me so I cant complain much? Edited November 20, 2016 by a LoveShack.org Moderator please use paragraphs and puncuation
hippychick3 Posted November 19, 2016 Posted November 19, 2016 He contacted you because he's bored. And I'm pretty sure his current gf wouldn't like it which shows you his morals and character, or lack there of. Even if he does still care about you, that's not enough. Why would you settle for that? Let go of the past and move on. The right person for you will never break up with you and then give you breadcrumbs whenever he's bored.
Nowty V Posted November 19, 2016 Posted November 19, 2016 Maybe he's just keeping a seat at the table so he can have sex with you if he ever feels the need, in between relationships. If you ever let him it will feel like you have been gutted like a dead fish when he disappears, seriously, it will hurt like hell.
Bromeo Posted November 19, 2016 Posted November 19, 2016 Hello, I am new to the forum, but I can concur with this. I have been NC with my ex of 18 months after chasing for two months. When she came over to collect her diamond bracelet birthday present, she started kissing me, we hooked up, and she said she loved me. After breaking int my house twice, and ignoring me. You will feel gutted, confused, and very, very pissed. Best not to all the way around. Even if my ex was confused at the time, it was messed up. Bromeo.
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