Being ignored and I hate it!

[MidwestUSA]

I'm still not following. You told him to go sort his head out, he wanted to keep hanging, but you said no.

 

But now you're sure he's 'thinking of you'?

 

What exactly do you want? Your bag of groceries back?

[kidm]

No he's wasting his time thinking of his ex. I was nice to him I bought him groceries when he asked me to I did everything I could to help him, and I know people think I'm juvenile for it but that's why my friends don't like him. I can date who ever I want but I like him, he's with someone else and is using her and you know what he is thinking of me, so what your telling me is that I should of sat there and been ok with him meeting up and talking to and about his long term ex.....you thought I got upset about people not responding to my question.....you can't read situations properly

 

I don't think anyone is saying you shouldn't have ended things. What we are saying is he owes you NOTHING. NADA, ZILCH. When you help someone, please expect nothing in return. He was out of a long term relationship and wasn't ready for anything serious - still hang up on his ex. You recognized that and ended things..rightly so. He does not have to maintain contact with you, he can bring a dozen women around when you're present, he can decide never to add them on Facebook, etc. etc. etc. It is his life. He doesn't have to do anything to make you feel good. Sorry.

[Stacksofjacks]

No I've not asked him to make me feel good we hang out In a group he didn't need to try to take that girl out less than a week after saying he liked me with out mates the only thing I've asked for is a bit of respect, I've tried to fix things because I'm sick of our friends saying it's **** when it has no reason to be

[NopeNah]

So..How long were you two "dating"? Sorry if I missed that..

[MidwestUSA]

Longer than anyone can stick with you so guess I'm lucky

 

I'm married hon. I get a lot of groceries, if you know what I mean.

[Stacksofjacks]

But he isn't your ex he's just a guy. If you are uncomfortable being around them during Christmas don't go to parties or hang out where he is. I doubt if he cares what you and your friends think at this point. If you talk to him the way you talked to Praying4Daylight; I can't much blame him for passing on you. LMFAO!

Least I'd know he'd never go

Near someone like you so that cheered me up a bit thanks lmfao

[NopeNah]

Since we went on dates and he told me how much he liked me, obviously a freak like you doesn't know what dating is lmao

You sound young.. Basically..You bought him groceries, he said he "liked" you. You were never exclusive. Probably slept together. Now he's still playing the field. That about sum it up? You had nothing to break up from. If a girl i'm casually dating told me maybe we should slow down..Guess what? I'm still going to date others..Just like I was doing while casually dating my "dumper".. But..yeah..I'm the "freak"..I think he dodged a bullet!

[stillafool]

No I didn't but I just hate everyone thinking I'm bad here when I nothing wrong, so you guys expect me to sit in and not see my friends for Xmas because of him. I paid for groceries for him bought him smokes he told me how much he didn't want to stop hanging out and i traduced me to his sister.I told him since we have so many friends together if he ever needed me I'd be there. But i will stick up for myself if you are some Internet troll I will hit back.

 

No one is thinking you are bad here. We don't care. We are just telling you you are getting upset over someone who is not your bf. If the groceries and smokes have made you feel used, ask him for the money back. See your friends during the holiday but you can't expect him not to have fun with his new girl because you might feel bad. Who knows, you might have a new bf by Christmas and won't care one bit.

[stillafool]

Least I'd know he'd never go

Near someone like you so that cheered me up a bit thanks lmfao

 

Good, glad we made your day here on LS. Good luck to you!

[Stacksofjacks]

No one is thinking you are bad here. We don't care. We are just telling you you are getting upset over someone who is not your bf. If the groceries and smokes have made you feel used, ask him for the money back. See your friends during the holiday but you can't expect him not to have fun with his new girl because you might feel bad. Who knows, you might have a new bf by Christmas and won't care one bit.

I feel nasty I'm sorry, but I just very messed up and I'm being unreasonable, I just for the first time in a long time felt attractive and as a plus turns out it's me his ex and the new girl going out, you guys are right injust wished he cared about me like I did about him and you are right he doesn't I'm sorry for being defensive

Edited November 20, 2016 by a LoveShack.org Moderator

[stillafool]

I feel like a nasty bitch I'm sorry, but I just very messed up and I'm being unreasonable, I just for the first time in a long time felt attractive and as a plus turns out it's me his ex and the new girl going out, you guys are right injust wished he cared about me like I did about him and you are right he doesn't I'm sorry for being defensive

 

That's okay you are hurt. You will find a great guy, just be open to them. If your mind is on this guy you won't be open to new ones.