How do I handle my ex?

[averagegirl]

So basically, earlier on in the year, my ex broke up with me. We weren't together that long but the breakup devasted me because I had genuinely started to love him. Moving on from him was very hard but I was starting to do just that. I implemented no contact and I was doing that up until October. So last month, he decided to pop back up. He added me again on Facebook after I had deleted him earlier this year. He texted me at the beginning of last month attempted to catch up. After that initial catch up session, he has texted me off and on since October. A couple weeks ago, I had told him that I didn't want to talk to him if he was expecting any kind of sexual favors (our relationship was very centered around sex so I knew when his tell-tale signs were popping up). After I had told him that, he stopped texting me for a couple of days and I was sure that I had heard the last of him. But then the other day, he texted me again and didn't put much effort into the conversation. I think this last time, he was just trying to see if I would talk to him after I had told him that I didn't want any kind of friends with benefits arrangement. I'm just really confused on this whole thing. I enjoy talking to him but I feel like he's playing games. What should I do?

[Satu]

Block and delete.

 

He's a total time waster.

 

 

Take care.

[Been]

He was fishing for sex. When you shut him down he didn't text you for a couple of days-until he figured out a new approach.

I think you like talking to him and he wants sex- not exactly what either of you want so go back to NC.