Lolsausages Posted November 18, 2016 Share Posted November 18, 2016 Hello, I need advice and Im so worn down I cant think properly anymore. I have been married 4 years and im exhausted. My wife is irrational, unfair and constantly ends up in fights with everyone and its 'always someone elses fault'. She has no concept of money and has put huge pressure on us with her decisions. The only reason im here is After a long struggle sheis pregannt and i want the baby to have both parents and how much my family is looking forward to a grandchild. Im so worn out i agree to anything as i have no will left in me anymore. Im terrified she will offend the few of my friends/family she hasnt yet. And a good day is one where there has been no drama. I am so jealous of normal easy going couples who are reasonble and fair to each ofher. Im broken down Link to post Share on other sites
oldbutcurious Posted November 19, 2016 Share Posted November 19, 2016 I have just disconnected from a similar one, and there's peace. He wants to come back, I'm holding. Maybe, you can request a break. Either you stay out of your home or she stays out for say weeks, or months. Then, talk things over if you still want to continue with the relationship. Either that, tell her, or file divorce. Immediately. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Superchicken Posted November 19, 2016 Share Posted November 19, 2016 (edited) I agree with the previous poster. You need to leave for a couple of days, and your spouse to realize you mean business. Don't turn on your phone, or answer any calls for a couple of days. If your worried about her or the kids, get someone to look in on them for the two days. Then call them to get details. Once you get your wind back, return home, and put it down the line !. If she doesn't come to some agreement with you on how things need to change, then leave for another two days or three.. Hopefully things may improve for you for the better. But unless you draw a line in the sand, you wont have a minutes peace. If this doesn't work out, then you can look at further suggestions from others here, as many people here have some real doozies !. Oh, I forgot to mention, there are stores that are selling Men's Nuts, 2 for the price of 1 sale. I recommend you buy a set, and wear them when you push your new arrangements with your spouse. Ted. Edited November 19, 2016 by Superchicken Link to post Share on other sites
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