Stempsy Posted November 17, 2016 Posted November 17, 2016 Hey guys. Question for you. Is there any reason for self pleasure that you'd use a condom? Found some in a garbage can in the basement, just curious how much I should freak out right now. Thanks!
BetrayedH Posted November 18, 2016 Posted November 18, 2016 Hey guys. Question for you. Is there any reason for self pleasure that you'd use a condom? Found some in a garbage can in the basement, just curious how much I should freak out right now. Thanks! I've only heard this as an excuse, when a guy is cheating. Resist the temptation to confront him. It won't accomplish anything except to clue him in that he's gotta take it further underground. Play dumb and find out what's going on. 2
Friskyone4u Posted November 18, 2016 Posted November 18, 2016 I've only heard this as an excuse, when a guy is cheating. Resist the temptation to confront him. It won't accomplish anything except to clue him in that he's gotta take it further underground. Play dumb and find out what's going on. OP, The above is good advice. I cannot imagine why he would do that unless he is an established germophobe. Highly unlikely. But you need to start with some snooping before you say anything. If he is cheating, he has a few screw loose to dump the condom in the house. 2
Larryville Posted November 18, 2016 Posted November 18, 2016 If your gut tells you a SO is cheating they probable are. NEVER ignore your gut!
Gloria25 Posted November 18, 2016 Posted November 18, 2016 Don't "confront" him... Simply be like, 'Hey found a condom downstairs in the trash...are you using it to get off to porn? Is there something we could be doing in the bedroom so you don't have to do porn?' Do this and watch the expression on his face. Watch how he replies. Come off as concerned and supportive. See how he reacts...
Herbalist Posted November 18, 2016 Posted November 18, 2016 Don't "confront" him... Simply be like, 'Hey found a condom downstairs in the trash...are you using it to get off to porn? Is there something we could be doing in the bedroom so you don't have to do porn?' Do this and watch the expression on his face. Watch how he replies. Come off as concerned and supportive. See how he reacts... I'd say just go with, "Hey I found a condom downstairs in the trash?" and leave it at that. His reaction from that alone could be pretty telling. If he is cheating and she offers him an excuse on a silver platter, he would just be relieved and go for it, like "Uh yeah, exactly, I used it to masturbate with."
Gaeta Posted November 18, 2016 Posted November 18, 2016 Hey guys. Question for you. Is there any reason for self pleasure that you'd use a condom? Found some in a garbage can in the basement, just curious how much I should freak out right now. Thanks! You found some? You mean there were several? Where they used? or they were old condoms still in their packs and he threw them away?
Author Stempsy Posted November 19, 2016 Author Posted November 19, 2016 There were a couple used and then what looked to be a small opened box.... we haven't used condoms in so long and have moved multiple times since. The whole thing just pisses me off because we have as much sex as he wants.
aileD Posted November 19, 2016 Posted November 19, 2016 So either the downstairs trash doesn't get emptied very often or maybe he's having sex with men.
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