WisconsinWonder Posted November 17, 2016 Posted November 17, 2016 In July I hooked up with a guy from work. We hooked up again in September and he told me he really liked me and asked me on a date. We were texting, messaging all the time and then he stopped. 2 weeks later he came along to a night out and I said how he treated me was appauline how he shouldn't behave like that. He was quite drunk and started crying (!) Saif he really liked me and told me a family member was dying and he's under massive pressure in work. He begged me for a 2nd chance. He told me he can be quite moody We have been on 7 dates since then. I asked if he wanted t to hang out last weekend and he couldn't, which was ok.. but never asked me out again. He texts me all the time but is so up and down. We were messaging the other night and I said do you want to go on a date again or just stay friends. He said he hadn't thought aboutique us with everything up in the air with work etc but would like to hang out this weekend. To be honest I'm getting very frustrated. I know he likes me and i like him but I'm definitely not a priority and I need to be. He's yet to set a date for this weekend so I'm wondering what I should do? This guy is 33 and never had a girlfriend
bummer Posted November 18, 2016 Posted November 18, 2016 33, moody, flaky, makes excuses, never had a gf... he must have some other magical qualities? amazing in bed? you can fight the hard game to whip him into shape because you like the challenge. or move on and find someone who can match basic relationship expectations and who actually tries to win you over in the early stages of courtship. 1
hippychick3 Posted November 18, 2016 Posted November 18, 2016 It's always better in the beginning to: 1) Let the guy ask you out on weekend dates. Then you can weed out the guys who are only lukewarm. 2) Know that when a guy is really interested, you will know it. He will not be lukewarm. 3) Not to sleep with a guy until you know you're in an exclusive relationship with him. 3
spiderowl Posted November 18, 2016 Posted November 18, 2016 Oh dear, unreliable, moody, forgets about you with all the other things going on, he's not exactly Prince Charming is he? What do you need? Someone reliable, consistent, caring, often thinks of you and considers your feelings? Well, he's not that guy. 1
oldshirt Posted November 19, 2016 Posted November 19, 2016 This guy is 33 and never had a girlfriend Now you know why.
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