Gabbym Posted November 17, 2016 Posted November 17, 2016 Me and this guy have been knowing each other for years and we ve always liked each other then I got a boyfriend and he expressed his feelings blah blah blah. Now we re together and everything I thought would happened or was told isn t happening and I feel like I got lied too. He has this nonchalant attitude about things that matter even though he says he cares. I m an emotional person and I know people handle things differently but sometimes you have to meet in the middle He has the smartest mouth and says rude things but can t take it when I do him the same way. He starts arguments over petty things and he s a walking contradiction.it's like he doesn't understand the fundamentals of having a girlfriend. I'm 22 but I'm mature for my age so I don't know if it's the immaturity that pisses me off or if he just doesn't get it. I try to be nice and bite my tongue to avoid the arguing but it seems like I'm the only one trying to better our relationship. He does sneaking things and I caught him texting another girl before but people **** up so I'm getting over it but my trust and anxiety is kinda on crack right now. If I tell him I'm leaving he doesn't say a word and I text him last night and told him to give me space for a few days and no response. I know it's weird but I want him to fight for me sometimes and since he doesn't I just assume it's not worth it. I'm focusing on bettering myself and getting back to my healthy ways so I'm doing things to not only help myself but to encourage him and it's working. He fell on hard times and I'm trying to be there for him but sometimes he just does mean things to me I'm a good girlfriend( so I've been told) but the problem I my relationships are that people don't appreciate mme so I just stop caring. I want to be with him but I'm kinda between a rock and a hard place. He makes me happy but the argument to are so bad. Then he never apologized for what he does and he just points fingers and everybody but him and I hate it. I'm not a needy girlfriend I just ask for respect and to be treated how they would want to be treated but I guess that's a lot to ask from somebody in their 20's.......what should do? End it or stick it out? I'm desperate lol
basil67 Posted November 18, 2016 Posted November 18, 2016 It's completely normal - and sensible - to lose interest in someone who doesn't appreciate you. It's not a problem that you do this! As for this guy, you've got a laundry list of complaints. You're clearly not suited to each other, so just end it.
Been Posted November 18, 2016 Posted November 18, 2016 Sometimes trying to get someone is the challenge and when you get them you lose interest.
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