radja98 Posted November 16, 2016 Posted November 16, 2016 I am just looking for a little help on what to do.. I am only eighteen years of age and been with my partner for almost two years now. I also have a 9month year old baby with her. For the last id say 4months I feel as if my partner is neglecting me, I do not agree that sex is everything in a relationship but I do feel as if it is necessary. In my opinion it brings a couple together to feel the intimacy and passion. I do not ask that much anymore if we can have sex, sometimes i do not know why i bother because Its an instant 'No'. She always tells me she is tired, but its not our child that causes that so much, He has slept throughout the who night since he was 6weeks old and he was so good with teething that we didn't even know he was(apart from the rosy cheeks). I have worked before my son was born, not a lot of hours, 25+ but I also fitted in college when he was born(in university now) and I do get tired. I just feel neglected, i feel as if i can not touch her, ask her, become intimate with her. We do still tell each other we love each other morning at night, we do speak and we have had our ups and downs but that is just normal. I do not know how else to say i'm neglected, i just feel it. Self conscious in myself and all around not good enough as a person for her. What shall I do?
Gloria25 Posted November 16, 2016 Posted November 16, 2016 Oh, well, I'm sure that you're gonna get a lot of responses saying you're at fault in some way, so I just am hoping these 18 years go by quickly for you and that you don't make anymore kids with her, cuz each new kid resets the 18 year prison sentence. 1
elaine567 Posted November 16, 2016 Posted November 16, 2016 I am just looking for a little help on what to do.. I am only eighteen years of age and been with my partner for almost two years now. I also have a 9month year old baby with her. For the last id say 4months I feel as if my partner is neglecting me, I do not agree that sex is everything in a relationship but I do feel as if it is necessary. In my opinion it brings a couple together to feel the intimacy and passion. I do not know how else to say i'm neglected, i just feel it. Self conscious in myself and all around not good enough as a person for her. What shall I do? YOU have to ask her what is wrong, she may be sore, she may be worried about getting pregnant again, she may be depressed, she may feel ill, she may feel she looks undesirable after the baby or she may just be just run down or a combination of reasons. You have to speak to her, tell her how it makes you feel too. Communicate. 2
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