fred123 Posted November 16, 2016 Posted November 16, 2016 aksing a girl on the second date what she is looking for and about her previous relationship? the reason i ask these questions is so that i know we are on the same page and dont want to invest in something where i end up having feelings and she just wants nothing serious. also i like to know about her previous relationship so i know I'm not a rebound etc is this normal??
Miss Clavel Posted November 30, 2016 Posted November 30, 2016 it's not only normal, it's good manners. how you go about it is the topic. just take her out and ask her a lot of questions. subtle ones. where did you grow up, go to school, college. why did you go to that college? where are her parents, are they still together? siblings, religion? what books are you reading? what music are you listening to? once you have the answers to simple questions, and people love to talk about themselves, you will be able to start zeroing in on what you really want to know. i don't think you can know if she is a "sure thing" right now. you're just going to have to trust the process and go along until/if you see any red flags. there is no way anyone can give you a guarantee that you are not wasting your time or risking your heart.
oldbutcurious Posted November 30, 2016 Posted November 30, 2016 just be casual about your conversation- it's the essence of dating - to get to know one another. make it friendly
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