broken guy Posted July 13, 2005 Posted July 13, 2005 OK then, so, you have done NC for a few months, they have not contacted you and they wont be back as they have someone else. Why not just tell them to get lost and tell them what you have been bottling up? If only for your own piece of mind. Why let them walk about with their nose in the air and a grin on their face that they are happy about what they did? It wont bring them back but at least you have got it off your chest. Its not like you can save face or dignity by not saying anything and you cant lose any more by doing it. Pride? It no longer matters. BTW, I have not done it...yet!
jen_jen_heartbroken Posted July 13, 2005 Posted July 13, 2005 Because all it serves to do is give them more satisfaction from knowing that they had that much power over you -- so much so, that you can't stop thinking about it months, years later.
Zaira Posted July 13, 2005 Posted July 13, 2005 I wouldn't waste my time. It just shows that the whole situation still bothers you.
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