Love2015 Posted November 15, 2016 Posted November 15, 2016 Went for a date after my divorce...to get out there... been a year since separation. He had cheated. I was happier in my life so decided to go for coffee. I was pleasantly surprised and had 2 amazing dates with this one guy... He then became cold...but we saw each other once more. Made out. I thought he liked me as much as I did. He started giving the crap I like him more than he does...but wait...it was just a date..I am not even thinking so long term... Anyways..went from that to telling me he is ONLY interested sexually. Three dates and I am only sexual for someone? Feels weird..I wanted to have fun and sex part of it..but this just feels he wants to get it in and get it out without any type of respect. Not commitment..I am talking about respect. Do u have ideas of how to have a casual sexual dating with Respect? I would like this but don't know if I am made for it. My dream side likes to think someone might develop feelings....but this one was clear very clear they wont. Any advice?
ElizabethIII Posted November 15, 2016 Posted November 15, 2016 I started my own thread on here about casual dating today. Dont try and win them over, it doesnt work. Only get involved in casual if you can manage it and you dont want more from them. There is one guy I have seen a few times. Although it is casual, I dont want to be disrespected and I feel that some of his behavior to me is disrespectful, like asking me out last minute and not arranging real dates. Just last minute, wanna go out. Well no thanks. Just as it is casual does not mean you accept poor behavior.
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