Bacardi Silver Posted July 13, 2005 Posted July 13, 2005 When a guy approaches you, what should he do to have success? Or is it just if he is hot/ugly?
mini_me123 Posted July 13, 2005 Posted July 13, 2005 i think he should...for me anyways...just approach me and it has to do alittle on looks but just approach me and start talking. be more specific
RecordProducer Posted July 13, 2005 Posted July 13, 2005 The friendlier the approach the better. If you ask her to have a drink or dance with you, you risk to hear "no, thanks" as an answer. Compliments about looks mean nothing to very attractive girls, they hear them all the time so don't waste your breath (and chance) on them. however they work extremely well with not-so-great-looking girls. Anything funny but spontaneous is welcomed. Looks may or may not be important. It depends on the woman. You would never guess who my type is and who isn't. I have a specific taste for men. But you have better chances to pick up a girl if you're objectively handsome, I'd say. The most important thing is too practice the technique very often. You shouldn't be discouraged by rejection. Remember, the more women you approach, the more often you will get laid.
Zaira Posted July 13, 2005 Posted July 13, 2005 One can still have a good conversation with an "ugly" person. You just have to accept that physical attraction will come into it, if the relationship is to be more than just friends.
erika2610 Posted July 13, 2005 Posted July 13, 2005 Originally posted by RecordProducer The friendlier the approach the better. If you ask her to have a drink or dance with you, you risk to hear "no, thanks" as an answer. Compliments about looks mean nothing to very attractive girls, they hear them all the time so don't waste your breath (and chance) on them. however they work extremely well with not-so-great-looking girls. Anything funny but spontaneous is welcomed. Looks may or may not be important. It depends on the woman. You would never guess who my type is and who isn't. I have a specific taste for men. But you have better chances to pick up a girl if you're objectively handsome, I'd say. The most important thing is too practice the technique very often. You shouldn't be discouraged by rejection. Remember, the more women you approach, the more often you will get laid. I think no matter if you're VERY attractive or not, most any girls like compliments on there looks
Author Bacardi Silver Posted July 13, 2005 Author Posted July 13, 2005 To be more specific, why do certain guys get your phone number and why do others get rejected? What do the guys that get your number do right?
Merin Posted July 13, 2005 Posted July 13, 2005 Originally posted by ~Zaira~ One can still have a good conversation with an "ugly" person :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: Damn that was funny! *wipes away tears* Sorry ahem.. just really struck me funny! Confidence in Yourself goes a long way, don't mistake that with being Cocky.. No one likes a Cock Smile unless you have a jacked up grill then uh.. just sort of grin a little JK JK JK seriously a great smile goes a long way! Say hello.. introduce yourself Be SINCERE When first meeting someone new a compliment shouldn't be about her Boobs or her Butt.. save that for later Don't be to shy to ask for her number.. tell her you'd like to get to know her better and ask for her number. Good Luck
Jennifer'sSecret Posted July 13, 2005 Posted July 13, 2005 Originally posted by Merin No one likes a Cock Uhhh..... ....I do.
Merin Posted July 13, 2005 Posted July 13, 2005 Originally posted by Jennifer'sSecret Uhhh..... ....I do. Not that kind of Cock.. the Assclown kind.. D h!
miss-gonewest Posted July 13, 2005 Posted July 13, 2005 Be funny. Make me laugh. Be original and don't take the approach or yourself seriously! I have had men that weren't all that 'appealing' approach me - if they'd be corny or cocky they would have been turned down flat. I have also had guys that on first glance weren't my cup of tea approach and they have made me laugh or started a humourous conversation and that was the deal breaker. It depends what your aim is - if you just want to break the ice and chat, then approach in a friendly and non threatening manner. If you want to pick up, then approach however you like because she will either be in to you, or not. Just my feelings anyway - I know not all gals are the same....
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