Lingo1 Posted November 13, 2016 Posted November 13, 2016 Well i was dating a female for about 9months and etc i was happy at first but after a while i started hating her attitude towards certain things and situation i am not going to sit here and bad mouth ,but it was like little things she would want my fully attention always on the phone ,I didn't have no space i just felt clinging to her always when we talk, or even when i go out with my friends i am not gonna lie i ending up cheating ( my first time ever and yes it was a ******* move) but after she forgave but then it was like ... i never cheated on any of my ex's she was my first so why is that.... i sat there couple of days and just couldn't bring myself to date her again... i feel bad cuz this was the first relationship i ever broke off ... and hurt her really bad but then their times i miss her really bad... i know you guys are gonna cruse me out lol for being a douche but i am expecting it i just want advice here (I also forgot to mention we were on and off for the 9months)
ExpatInItaly Posted November 13, 2016 Posted November 13, 2016 What do you want advice about, exactly? You cheated because you weren't really into her. 1
Author Lingo1 Posted November 13, 2016 Author Posted November 13, 2016 What do you want advice about, exactly? You cheated because you weren't really into her. Like why am i feeling like i need her still after all of this ... is she really worth it?
Satu Posted November 13, 2016 Posted November 13, 2016 You've cooked your soup, so it's you who has to eat it. Take care. 1
ExpatInItaly Posted November 13, 2016 Posted November 13, 2016 Like why am i feeling like i need her still after all of this ... is she really worth it? My guess is that it's not about her, but your ego. Even though you describe her as clingy, on some level you probably enjoyed the validation and attention from her. She was always around to see you and desire you. Now that's gone. 2
Author Lingo1 Posted November 14, 2016 Author Posted November 14, 2016 I guess your right ... and as u said i have to deal with this
confusedgirlfriend11 Posted November 15, 2016 Posted November 15, 2016 Best advice, leave the poor girl alone. You've damaged her enough. Realise what you did was horrible, cheating is never acceptable. I don't know whether you were honest with her about the cheating or whether she found you out...? Either way try and learn from your mistake. I believe if you feel the need to cheat, you shouldn't be in a relationship. You wouldn't cheat on someone you truly care about. Don't go jumping into a new relationship. Give yourself some time to learn about you and how you should behave as a decent human being before inflicting yourself on someone else. Good luck!!
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