lovebug_5858 Posted November 13, 2016 Posted November 13, 2016 Two days ago I found out my ex boyfriend who broke up with me on account of "I didn't give him enough quality time" was actually cheating on me. A mutual friend came up to me and sort of made sure I wasn't dating him anymore. When I asked why she hesitated and told me, she felt so bad telling me seeing that I had no idea. She had seen him with the girl outside of our college, kissing her and leaving with her. This was two weeks ago on a Tuesday. He broke up with me Wednesday. She told me it didn't seem new. I started shaking when I found out. I tried to hold back the tears but I couldn't. How could someone do this? I cried in his arms... He cried and told me he loved me and this is not what he wanted. But he had already been cheating. It makes sense... He wouldn't let go of the last argument we had. He insisted I wasn't spending enough time with him. But how could I? I have my career almost in hand, one more semester. He couldn't wait a few weeks? Was he dying that bad for attention? It had only been 2 1/2 months that I had been back in school. With interning, working, and school... Yeah I'm sorry I barely see you but I thought it was for the greater good.... Every moment it pops up in my head my heart sinks and I just lay in bed crying, knowing the man I slept next to was cheating on me... When so many times he told me that would never be an issue. I'm in awe. How do I stop this aching stabbing pain in my stomach.... Im so lost 1
Marco Valerio Posted November 13, 2016 Posted November 13, 2016 Be happy that it's over now. It hurts deeply sure, but better that than still being in a relationship with him. You cannot have a healthy and a loving relationship with a cheater nor a liar. Keep strong dear friend.
goingcrazy123 Posted November 13, 2016 Posted November 13, 2016 Sorry I feel your pain. I hope you find yourself and move forward. Its a hard pill to swallow but once you do you can move on and never look back. I know its hard to think about now but you will be ok in time.
stillafool Posted November 13, 2016 Posted November 13, 2016 Unfortunately this is usually the case when there's a sudden break up. They always have someone else they really want to date. They cry because they don't want to hurt you with the truth but it hurts anyway when you finally find out.
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