RiskBreaker Posted July 13, 2005 Posted July 13, 2005 Hello All, I just wanted to ask for some advise nothing major. My problem is that my ex gf of 2 years, would make snippy remarks when I am on instant messenger talking to her brother. I have not spoken to her in over 2 years, I get smart remarks now and then prolly saw her once on the metro. I just want advise to to tell her not to do that without being explicit. History, we had a long distance relationship, I resigned from job, moved to her state[ The most foolish thing I ever done in my life], I had to move back with my parents who I have not lived with in over a decade, had problems looking for work, got depressed, she broke off with me about 2 weeks before my birthday which was a Friday, called her Saturday to talk it over she agreed got back together just to break up with me again on the following Sunday Most of the reasons were petty she was 8 yrs younger than I was. I'm 33 and stuck in a place that I have no desire to be. my back is hurting from sleeping on the couch for 2 years. I am in good standings with her younger brother, but her snippy remarks are getting to me, cause she does it while Aim talking to her brother and she would leave before I realize it was her to rebuttle, wanted to send her an email but really have nothing to say that doesn't involve me washing my mouth with soap or more my hands afterwards . LOL Any good suggestions so I can get this monkey off my back for the email that is. Thanks
A Fly onThe Wall Posted July 13, 2005 Posted July 13, 2005 Delete her or block her.. That way she can't take pot shots at you. If it has been 2 years what are your doing with her still on your im buddy list ? By leaving her on you list you are just keeping yourself tied to her
Pocky Posted July 13, 2005 Posted July 13, 2005 I'm confused - Your ex-girlfriend is sitting down in front of the computer while you're talking to her brother on AIM and taking control of the keyboard for the sole purpose of making snippy comments amidst the conversation with her brother? Why would anyone allow their older sister to make comments under their sign on while they are in the middle of a conversation? And why do you need to have a rebuttal? She's an ex-girlfriend. You're not dating anymore so it's time you stopped fighting. You're thirty-three and eight years older than her. Let her act like a child and ignore the remarks. She'll just keep making them if she knows they affect you so much. Ambivalence is really a powerful stance. Ignore her comments and just wait until you know the brother is back to respond.
Author RiskBreaker Posted July 13, 2005 Author Posted July 13, 2005 Originally posted by A Fly onThe Wall Delete her or block her.. That way she can't take pot shots at you. If it has been 2 years what are your doing with her still on your im buddy list ? By leaving her on you list you are just keeping yourself tied to her Actually the day she broke off with I deleted and block her from all forms of internet communications. Even her phone calls are blocked.
Author RiskBreaker Posted July 13, 2005 Author Posted July 13, 2005 Thanks for the advise thats what I'll do. I've been doing it anyways hehehehehe. I know it urks her not to get a response from me anyways.
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