notsointerested Posted November 13, 2016 Posted November 13, 2016 I met this girl online a few weeks ago and we instantly clicked over PMs and so we took each other's numbers. We would text/call so often and we would flirt and then we connected over several social media platforms and things were good. She always told me how she wanted to meet me and at one point she told me she wouldn't mind giving us a chance (i.e. in a relationship). Anyway I asked her out and she happily agreed but all of a sudden I'm the one driving the conversations now and it just feels a bit strange because I don't know why she is behaving like this. I have to keep asking her questions to keep the conversation flowing and I didn't have to do this before. What's happening? Did I do something wrong? I am meeting her in a few days time.
stillafool Posted November 13, 2016 Posted November 13, 2016 It's obvious. Someone else has caught her attention so she is slowing things down with you.
Grey40 Posted November 13, 2016 Posted November 13, 2016 I never think it's a good idea to talk for hours on end online before meeting them in person. After the first date, if you like each other and hit it off, open the online convos up more, but your goal when connecting online with a women is--talk, get her number, set up a date. As quickly as possible. Having too much conversation online messes things up. 1) you waste time because you could end up talking for days or weeks and never actually get them to meet up. 2) gives you almost nothing to discuss when you finally do meet 3) takes all of the spark and attraction away in her mind. She knows she has you and girls like to be kept guessing in the beginning 1
Popsicle Posted November 13, 2016 Posted November 13, 2016 Just go on the date and then see how she acts.
Recommended Posts