robaday Posted November 12, 2016 Posted November 12, 2016 After three dates would you tell them in person that you don't want to see them again? or is messaging ok? She's cool lady just my circumstances have changed and I'm moving away shortly
Redhead14 Posted November 12, 2016 Posted November 12, 2016 After three dates would you tell them in person that you don't want to see them again? or is messaging ok? She's cool lady just my circumstances have changed and I'm moving away shortly Have you been communicating regularly since the last date and how long ago was the 3rd date? Personally, after only 3 dates, I'm not wondering too much about a guy and if he didn't call me again, no problem. I do think, however, a lot of women view dropping off the face of the earth as "ghosting". I don't consider it ghosting if they stop calling after a few dates. Ghosting to me would be about a longer-term dating scenario, but that's just me. I don't get my panties in wad over guys not calling again or too invested in guys in 3 or 4 dates . . . If you feel the need to tell her, give her a call, don't text. I don't think an in person send off is necessary at this point, but a call would be nice.
Philosopher Posted November 12, 2016 Posted November 12, 2016 It is good that you intend to tell her rather ghosting. Personally I think after three dates a text message should be sufficient.
victoria88 Posted November 12, 2016 Posted November 12, 2016 After three dates would you tell them in person that you don't want to see them again? or is messaging ok? She's cool lady just my circumstances have changed and I'm moving away shortly One date or 100 dates... same answer from me: Tell her in person what happened and why you cannot see her any more. Do NOT leave her wondering if she messed up something. Tell her personally, no text messages. 1
dumbass2 Posted November 12, 2016 Posted November 12, 2016 Text or call after only 3 dates appears to be fine. I've done it and have had it done to me. For me, no issue at all. Not invested much at all after 3 dates, unless maybe sex and intimacy was involved and also if those 3 dates were over a longer period of time where you actually got to know each other by talking and texting a lot.
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