21svmanriquez Posted November 12, 2016 Posted November 12, 2016 I like this guy in my high school he's in my math class. It seems like he likes me, by the way he always flirts. I'm confused because i'm not really sure if he likes me because he's a senior, popular, fit, he's also a varsity football player! (Problem: I'm fat) So the other day in class he tried to catch my attention and he gets me kinda nervous i can't even look at him in the eye! ugh! lol! But yea I just want to know if he really likes me because it shows all the signs like: Helps me when I need help, trys to empress me acting cool around me, Touches my hand, asks me questions about how to do the hw, he smiles, walks by and looks at me, he's loud around his friends, one of his friends always whispers to him and says "you like her man! but she's fat". Plz answer quick
Herbalist Posted November 12, 2016 Posted November 12, 2016 Okay so I know this might come as a shock but there are men who are specifically attracted to bigger women, and their tastes range all the way from "thick"to "super sized" sometimes abbreviated as SSBW and everything in between. There are porn sites entirely dedicated to men who like bigger women, and the porn industry is out to make money, they wouldn't make BBW and SSBW porn if it didn't sell. They make it because it sells (either the porn itself or they make money via ads from number of views), and it sells because there are men out there who are specifically sexually attracted to bigger women. So you being fat is not a factor in determining whether or not he really likes you. Whether he is playing games, a user or is genuinely attracted to you, is based on the quality of his character, not your weight.
preraph Posted November 12, 2016 Posted November 12, 2016 Just because you guys are high school age and that means boys are very immature, be sure you know he has good character before you plunge in with him. Because high school boys can be cruel and dare each other to do things. So find out what you can about him from others and be sure he's not a jerk. I mean, one sign of his ethics is he's still hanging around with guys who are mean enough to call you fat within earshot. So you do have to be careful because if this bothered him much, he'd dump that guy or shut him up at least. My best advice is don't do anything physical with him unless and until he has taken you out on a series of real dates where he picks you up at home and meets your parents, pays for your date and returns you safely back home without being disrespectful and trying to just have sex with you. Sometimes guys think women who aren't the most popular are desperate and will have sex with anybody. So just wait and see if he dates you properly and with respect and meets the parents or if he just tries to corner you somewhere and make out with you. And do NOT do the latter because he wouldn't do that if his intentions were honest and honorable. So you can control this by just setting standards and sticking to them. Good luck. I hope he's a good guy, but no way for me to know from where I sit.
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