semi Posted July 12, 2005 Posted July 12, 2005 So it has been a month of NC and I am not in the right frame of mind. It is getting a little easier but I feel like something huge needs to happen to really boost me up. I think about her a lot. I just had the hugest sinking feeling this morning and realized she was never coming back. I know that she is doing fine without me and it sucks. I think that I have been fairly strong since I haven't called her for a month but am doing a bit of waiting maybe nc will bring her back. I am so dillusional about this right now. please set me straight. here's the thing i need to contact her about her stuff. I really don't want to contact her because I know that I cannot scream I love you, when that's what i want to do. I know that if we have a conversation it will be all business no emotions. But i will feel like i didn't get to say what i wanted to after the conversation is over. someone slap me please.
Drivetildriven Posted July 12, 2005 Posted July 12, 2005 There will always be something more you have to tell her, trust me it'll do no good. I'm sure she knew how much you love her and everything else when she broke up with you. I called my ex three weeks after she broke up with me, because I had to get some stuff from her house. It was all I could do not to cry. She showed absolutely no emotion and was very much all business. It broke my heart even more. Don't call her. At best it'll be a lateral move. In any case, it'll set your pain and recovery clock back to the starting position. You just have to give her more time. A lot more time. In the process one of the two WILL happen. You'll either meet someone else, or she'll come back. Could be three months, could be three years. In the meantime focus on making yourself a better, stronger more desirable person. Women like guys like that, so you can't loose. Praying doesn't hurt either.
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