katrineee Posted November 9, 2016 Share Posted November 9, 2016 Two months ago my ex and I had a fight, because I didn't want to tell him about my personal life and claimed he had the right to know. He ended up blocking me on Facebooks messenger and texting. Last week we crossed paths, and he initiated contact with me to catch up on how I was doing. Later that day I was looking through facebook. I’m not friends with my ex, but we have mutual friends. I could see that he had commented on a post and by accident i clicked on his profile (and yes it really was an accident, and not just out of curiosity). Then I noticed that he had unblocked me. Now i'm just confused as to why he would do that. It just seems like a really weird coincidence that he initiates contact with me and then unblocks me. Should I read something into this? Or is he just being weird? Link to post Share on other sites
l8estnews Posted November 9, 2016 Share Posted November 9, 2016 Two months ago my ex and I had a fight, because I didn't want to tell him about my personal life and claimed he had the right to know. What is the nature of your personal life that you don't want to share with your significant other? Link to post Share on other sites
Author katrineee Posted November 9, 2016 Author Share Posted November 9, 2016 What is the nature of your personal life that you don't want to share with your significant other? We were not dating when we had the fight. Since he was the one breaking up with me, I don't feel like I owe him any information about my life. We had been dating for 7 months, when he broke up with me in may. Then he reached out to me in july to know how I was doing. Also he said, he really wanted to see me, but was sure that I didn't want to talk him. I agreed to meet up with him. He was on a holiday at the time, so we didn't meet up until august, but he texted me almost everyday until then. The day before we had arranged to meet up, he told me that he had already met someone else. I know for certain that this was a lie though. We met up and he apologized for the way he had been acting towards me, and I could tell that it really affected him. Then in september we had the before mentioned fight and he ended up blocking me. So basically I'm just really confused right now and not sure if I should read something into all of this. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
l8estnews Posted November 9, 2016 Share Posted November 9, 2016 It seems to me that he is still immature in terms of handling things like these. I suggest don't read much into it and just be friends with him. Cut him loose in the "relationship-type" of guy. Link to post Share on other sites
gorf Posted November 9, 2016 Share Posted November 9, 2016 We were not dating when we had the fight. Since he was the one breaking up with me, I don't feel like I owe him any information about my life. We had been dating for 7 months Then in september we had the before mentioned fight and he ended up blocking me. So you were dating for over half a year, and you did not want to tell him details about your life that he was I suppose seeing and wanting to know more about. So you broke up with him cause you did not want to tell him. Then faught and he blocked you. Now he is coming around. Cause he wants you back I would imagine. Is that really so hard to see? The real question is, what was it about your life he wanted to know about, the 'details', that were so important to keep secret and break up with him cause he wanted to know? Obviously it must have been pretty big stuff. Link to post Share on other sites
Author katrineee Posted November 9, 2016 Author Share Posted November 9, 2016 So you were dating for over half a year, and you did not want to tell him details about your life that he was I suppose seeing and wanting to know more about. So you broke up with him cause you did not want to tell him. Then faught and he blocked you. Now he is coming around. Cause he wants you back I would imagine. Is that really so hard to see? The real question is, what was it about your life he wanted to know about, the 'details', that were so important to keep secret and break up with him cause he wanted to know? Obviously it must have been pretty big stuff. We had been broken up for months when he wanted the personal information. So the fact that I didn't want to share the information with him had nothing to do with the break up. He was the one dumping me so I just don't see why he should know about my personal life. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
gorf Posted November 9, 2016 Share Posted November 9, 2016 We had been broken up for months when he wanted the personal information. So the fact that I didn't want to share the information with him had nothing to do with the break up. He was the one dumping me so I just don't see why he should know about my personal life. I guess my question would be, why did he dump you? Did he say specifically or was it just a "we aren't working out" line with no detail? Link to post Share on other sites
Author katrineee Posted November 10, 2016 Author Share Posted November 10, 2016 I guess my question would be, why did he dump you? Did he say specifically or was it just a "we aren't working out" line with no detail? I actually never really got an explanation as to why he did it. It was more like "It's not you, it's me". He said, he was afraid of hurting me. But I think it's more like the opposite. In february (when we were still dating) I was going out for coffee with a friend. I made a joke about it and called it a "date". I think it was pretty obvious that it was a joke. If I wanted to date other people then I would have told him directly. He ended up ignoring me for three days. When we finally spoke, he said it was a way to protect himself from getting hurt. So basically I think he is very insecure. Link to post Share on other sites
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