Erik30 Posted November 9, 2016 Posted November 9, 2016 (edited) About two/three weeks ago I matched up with a girl on a dating site. She used something you could compare to a "super like" on Tinder and I accepted. We started talking and it went pretty well, but already at the end of that same day she told me she would delete her profile. She said she was done with the site, but gave me her number. I thought it was a bit weird but I continued to text her from then on. Later on she told me there were too many creepy guys on the dating site so that's why she left. I asked her out after a couple of days, and she said she'd like that but after her exams the following week. So fast forward to today, I brought up hanging out, she tells me this story about a guy she met online who is basically stalking her, and how she's now really careful about meeting new people because of that. I said to her we can take it slow if she wants, and meet whenever she feels ready. I can understand why she would be hesitant after a recent bad experience. She assured me that she still wanted to see me, but we didn't set a date or anything. About an hour after that conversation I'm on the dating site, and to my surprise I see her on it with a completely new profile. It's not some glitch because she was using new pictures and her old deactivated profile is still stored in my mailbox. I have a date with another girl on Friday so I'm not broken up about it, and It's not like we're exclusive, she can do whatever she wants, but the whole thing just seems weird. We were even talking about dating sites in general, she gave me the impression that she was totally done with OLD. I doubt she's a catfish because she's sent me multiple selfies, and she's cute but not "unrealistically attractive." (But I guess it's not impossible) Maybe she likes the attention? It just really bothered me seeing her profile right after we had talked about her bad experience and how she feels about OLD in general. So should I just delete her number, or keep it and see where it leads? I don't care that's she's on the dating site, it's the "lying"/not telling me. My first instinct was to delete it because I feel like she's probably wasting my time Edited November 9, 2016 by Erik30
redhairnfreckles78 Posted November 9, 2016 Posted November 9, 2016 Hi Erik, Yeah i can see why you are confused. I have never tried online dating so not too sure of the way it works, but i would be tempted to forget about her. She has no obligation to tell you why she is back on the site but it kinda looks a bit odd, like she maybe doesn't know what she wants. Either way mixed signals and doing the opposite of what she said an hour before would make me delete her number. Go on the date with the other girl and have a good time
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