Jeweliamj Posted November 8, 2016 Posted November 8, 2016 I am trying to make a long story short. I am 23 and he will be as well on the 22nd. Started seeing each other in May and fell in love very quickly. He dumped me end of August but we got back together a month ago in the beginning of October. I think I may have an STD (herpes). I told him this a few months ago not long after we were together. I am not 100% sure if it's herpes (yes I am going to get tested). Now I really think it may not be herpes and I just have a reoccurring cyst. He thinks he has herpes now. He talked to this woman he knows from his childhood last night about it and she told him he has herpes. I told him until he gets tested nothing is 100% certain. He visited me at my work around 8:30 last night and things were great. I got to his place around midnight when I was off and he was so cold and mean towards me. He had been drinking a lot, which when he's mad at me while drunk he gives me the silent treatment. Literally two minutes before I walked inside he messaged me on Facebook "I love you". He just stood there not looking at me and wouldn't hug or kiss me. I told him I love you and he said nothing. I asked him if he loved me and he said "I don't know" right before passing out. I told him again how sorry I was for this situation yet he knew months ago when I first told him. He acts like he wants to spend his life with me. If we do have herpes I don't see what the issue is as long as we are only with each other. I still don't think I have it but if I do, I've accepted it's common and I can live with it. Today he went back to telling me I love you like nothing happened. I am so emotionally hurt still. I have never ever told him im not sure if I love you. This isn't the first time he has done this. I blame the alcohol. He can be so mean when drunk and angry. I don't know if he actually loves me.
Buddhist Posted November 8, 2016 Posted November 8, 2016 The bigger question is, why do you care? He's a mean and angry drunk. Is this really the choice you intend to make in life?
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