Kkristine Posted November 8, 2016 Posted November 8, 2016 This guy's best friend and my best friend are dating. I just started spending time with all of them a few weeks ago because I just got out of a long-term relationship. We don't know each other that well yet, but we seem to have a lot in common. He invited me on a Vegas trip for his birthday in February with him and the couple, which would make it the 4 of us. I was a little surprised by that, as February is a long ways off. I said that I didn't think I could get that time off. He was persistent about it, and I found a way to make it work. I don't want to make any moves yet because I'm still recovering from my breakup, and while I have developed a little something something for him, I'm not ready for another relationship just yet. Just enjoying the fun right now. But, I would like to know your thoughts. Does he seem interested?
Miss Clavel Posted November 17, 2016 Posted November 17, 2016 yes, imo, he is interested. what he is interested in, is the question. your first question should be, "what are the sleeping arrangements"? a lady doesn't take a trip, money or gifts from a man she's not engaged to. at the very least, get your own room and pay for some of the expense, yourself. and watch how much you drink. and how much he drinks for that matter. my advice. let him book you a room of your own, or girls together and guys together. that way he won't be out the deposit once you smell the same rat i do. 1
salparadise Posted November 17, 2016 Posted November 17, 2016 yes, imo, he is interested. what he is interested in, is the question. I can tell you what he's interested in. And since you're "not ready for another relationship just yet. Just enjoying the fun right now," you might have a lot of fun on such a trip. Just don't be surprised if there are some expectations. a lady doesn't take a trip, money or gifts from a man she's not engaged to. I think ninety-five percent must've missed that memo. But it's probably a good idea for you to pay your ENTIRE expenses and remain a free agent. once you smell the same rat i do. Rat, meaning any guy who is interested in sex, right? What if she's interested in sex? Is there an animal name for that? Mink perhaps?
Els Posted November 17, 2016 Posted November 17, 2016 It sounds like he wants casual sex. Are you up for that? If not, be sure to get your own room and make it obvious up-front that you're going to do that.
JellyTot Posted November 17, 2016 Posted November 17, 2016 Imo yes, he is probably interested. As others have said, confirm that you're happy with the sleeping arrangements before you book, and make sure he doesn't have unrealistic expectations of what will happen during the trip.
LookAtThisPOst Posted November 17, 2016 Posted November 17, 2016 I knew of a dude that did this, and yes...his ulterior motive was to turn a "lady friend" into a girlfriend by the end of the weekend., only he was going on a camping trip with a group of friends. They "carpooled" together, while he pulled his camper. She slept in the same camper as him (not with him, in another bed). When they were carpooling home, he asked her to be his girlfriend. He got the, "I don't think of you in that way" line. 1
TheTraveler Posted November 17, 2016 Posted November 17, 2016 I knew of a dude that did this, and yes...his ulterior motive was to turn a "lady friend" into a girlfriend by the end of the weekend., only he was going on a camping trip with a group of friends. They "carpooled" together, while he pulled his camper. She slept in the same camper as him (not with him, in another bed). When they were carpooling home, he asked her to be his girlfriend. He got the, "I don't think of you in that way" line. Also, why book a trip that far out with this guy? A lot can happen between now and then.
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