Redguitar35 Posted November 8, 2016 Posted November 8, 2016 (edited) I finally met a high quality woman online after a long string of troubled females. I met this girl on tinder, of all places, and we've gone out on a couple of dates. I like her a lot. Although she is hot, it's not just about physical attraction -- I really enjoy spending time with her. We laugh a lot together. She is the first woman I've met in I don't know how long that I see a future with. The thing is, I am not sure what she is looking for. I haven't made a move on her. We haven't kissed or held hands or anything, but we do hug and she said she wanted to see me again. Not saying I want to rush sex or anything, but I'd like to know where this is heading? It's so ambiguous. Does she just want to be friends? Am I losing her by not making a move? What to do. Edited November 8, 2016 by Redguitar35
LeaGreenLad88 Posted November 8, 2016 Posted November 8, 2016 Well this may be a bit odd coming from me after my thread about my situation. But here goes. U think if you enjoy her company and value her as person aside from her looks.... thrn she is a good catch. And you should pursue it more romantically. I would suggest that you ask her again to another date. But this time be a bit more assertive and try and get the kiss as opposed to a hug. Be thoughtful. Be a gentleman. Make her laugh and smile. Hold the door for her. I don't think your lowing her. But try be a bit more confident in yourself, if you go out with her again and you don't try some passion (not sexual ) thrn she may start to think you have no interest in her. Got to try for thr kiss in my opinion. But only when your comfortable doing it. Don't force it. Or she'll pick up on that vibe too. It's hard though dude. But try be as confident as you can. Make her realize that you see her as more than a friend. 1
LeaGreenLad88 Posted November 8, 2016 Posted November 8, 2016 Also.. I think ito definitely important to remember..... despite what some guys might say to you.... It's no biggie if you don't kiss on your first date. Second or third though, assuming the evening/day has gone well thrn I think it should happen.
mortensorchid Posted November 8, 2016 Posted November 8, 2016 You will never know until you make a move towards something else other than a friendship. Fact. Make the move either verbal or physical but not too forceful of course. I was with someone a few years ago, I did not think he and I were going to be anything but friends. Plus he was gorgeous to look at and figured he had women all over him, so I ... Ignored him. Until one day he leaned in and kissed me. I was shocked. We had a relationship for two months then, he broke it off. He said he was trying to get over someone else. And today he's married to someone else. He didn't deserve me, he deserved that someone else whoever she is. Make your move or you will never know.
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