reozeno Posted November 8, 2016 Posted November 8, 2016 Today i met a girl which has planned for awhile. We talked and to be honest it's goes well. She laugh, touch my beard.However, in the end of the meet up, i ask a question regarding a guy she's seeing. She admit she meet up with one guy. And they met before she met me. However she admit she doesn't sure if he's the one. I ask her, do she wants to get to know me better? She said she wasn't sure its a good idea as it wasn't fair for the guy she's seeing as also not for fair for me as she might end up with him. One thing is that she's actually do want to get to know me. But torn about it. I actually said if she isn't interested in me, ill leave her alone and no more contact with me, which she said reluctant to do so. I suggest it coz i don't want to be in friendzone. However in finale, i gave my number.(we chat through social media). I said it depends on her now, ive express my interest, its up to her to do the follow up which if silence follows, ill move on. My question, did i do the right thing? It do sort of putting me in limbo coz ill do nothing but waiting. Shoukd i move on?
Toodaloo Posted November 8, 2016 Posted November 8, 2016 Ball is in her court. Personally I think she sounds flakey so don't hang about. Carry on dating others and if she misses out well that is boo sucks to her.
smackie9 Posted November 8, 2016 Posted November 8, 2016 If you are confident enough you wouldn't let this other guy get in the way. Play it kool, don't talk or mention the other dude. Give her a little attention then pull back. Be mysterious, aloof, make her miss your attention. Make her think you are not putting your life on hold for her and that you have other option.
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